If this is all you saw while watching the movie, you pretty much missed the entire point of her story - and his. You're choosing to see things from the very narrow perspective of a man who seemingly has everything he wants, including Rose, who has been bought. They're not lovers, or even friends. He wanted her and she didn't want him, but because of her family's loss of wealth, the burden of that loss is essentially being made up by her sale to Cal. You understand it's barely consensual. She's sailing away from a life of possibility to a life of serving a man she doesn't like, let alone love. His wealth doesn't change that.
So yeah, of course Cal's having a great time and being generous. He scored the hand of a woman who's rejected him for probably years on account of her family's misfortune. He's not doing her a favour, he's collecting a prize for being rich. Rose isn't unimpressed, she's suffocated by not only him and their pretend marriage, but by the whole idea of being trapped for the rest of her life in both a marriage and a society that upholds these kinds of marriages in the first place. Yes, she's bratty in her handling of the situation because she has no real adult power and can only retaliate in a childish way. She feels like a prisoner because she is one.the diamond is a huge symbol of her captivity.
Everything she does with Jack is her rebellion against that, which is unthinkable for a woman of that era - but you're not from that era, so why don't you understand her desire for freedom? Like I said, it's not all black and white, Cal's not a total dick the whole way through the movie; but that's because the movie is slowly revealing what Rose suspected all along: Cal is an unfortunate by product of his upbringing. And once Cal loses his own wealth, is power is completely moot, showing how little he really had to begin with and the fragility of the society on which this balance of power rests.
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