I found at work or just life in general I've come across people who haven't liked me, even though I did nothing to them,it's frustrating especially how I'm polite and did nothing to them, anyone else have experiences like this?
shareYes, but only the assholes and who cares about them?
shareI'll remember this the next time you call me an asshole because you've given me plenty of reasons to not only dislike, but to despise you. See how that works, dumbo?
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shareGot it. Now you've returned to the "single emoji" comeback/strategy.
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shareLike MaximRecoil said recently....."idiocy."
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sharedoes these actually work?? seem to :D
sharedb deserves the shortest and most silly responses you can think of
Honestly, that loser creep is a bag of garbage on the sidewalk in The Bronx in August and he is totally offensive to everyone in the area…You’d be silly to go anywhere near this trash👍
The real assholes are the ones who would leave a bag of garbage on the sidewalk in The Bronx in August! Cretins!
shareI see yukkers acquired another ass-kissing minion. He needs all he can rally behind him, to prop him up, because he sure as hell won't ever be able to stand on his own.
shareOne reply and I'm a "minion kissing ass"?
might want to have your preception checked by a medical professional soon.
meanwhile, since I dont do emojis....
HERE'S A BALL! WHO'S A GOOD BOY? WHO'S A GOOD BOY! YOU A GOOD BOY! GET THE BALL! GET THE BALL! FETCH!! FETCH!! GO!! GO!! GO!! GOOD BOY!
"does these actually work??"
Maybe you should return to grade school and learn basic grammar. And it's perception, not "preception", ignoramus.
"...since I don't do emojis...."
But you believe they "seem" to work. (eye-roll)
No, I always try to give them a good reason to dislike me.
shareSay, aren't you the one who posted about a work relation suddenly cooling off and another time about coworkers not talking to you?
Sounds like "no reason" may not be so accurate.
But benefit of the doubt. Do you wear buttons that make ethical or political statements? Do you speak ill of any demographic but think it is fine because of perceived common opinion? Do you listen? Do you only talk about yourself? Do you interrupt?
Sometimes people react chemically to one another. Take it all in stride but do have a look at your behavior.
I'm sure it's the same person.
shareThey may not have a good reason, but they have a reason.
shareReminds me of a Bill Hicks standup:
Stranger: What's wrong?
BH: ??? Nothin'.
Stranger: It takes more energy to frown than to smile.
BH: It takes more energy to point that out than to just leave me alone.
I love it! So quotable.
In that vein, there are some people that are "nice" on paper, are "friendly" to me, but nonetheless rub me like sand paper. They try too hard to be friendly. They ask me a barrage of questions that I find too personal coming from someone I'm not ( yet ) friends with, ask me if there's anything wrong just because I'm not giddily tap dancing and singing etc.
Kind of a side note but I've found that some people are very nice on the phone but when you meet them, they're really not nice at all and some that you think are not nice on the phone are VERY nice in person. Strange.
share"Smiling faces, smiling faces, sometimes
they don't tell the truth..."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3GXSHRJYxTQ
missnat, I say this with caring and kindness: you are not going to get the answers you seek on MovieChat. You seem confused and unhappy. My heart goes out to you in a supportive and not condescending way. You would benefit from professional help, and that does NOT mean that I think you are “crazy” or have something wrong with you! You are confused and in pain, and a professional counselor can help you sort this out. I’d recommend a Social Worker. Did you know that most Social Workers have more training in clinical psychology than most psychiatrists? (A psychiatrist is a shrink who can prescribe drugs, so his focus is on drugs and not on feelings.) Social work is often free. I like you and I want you to feel better. God bless you.
shareI would say that there would be a reason, I'm just not aware of that reason. That reason also might not have anything to do with me.
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