The two biggest lies about dating - “Girls just want a nice guy” and “girls LOVE older guys!”
Total bullshit
shareTotal bullshit
shareIn my experience, girls seem to want a guy who (a) can make them laugh, and (b) will protect them, including by physical combat if necessary.
shareI remember in the 80s someone telling me that women want a guy who makes them laugh. My response was if that was true then Tom Cruise wouldn’t be America’s heartthrob, it would have been Dana Carvey.
shareReally?? Because I've been with a guy who's almost 10 years older than me, who is nice, smart, and funny, and not the most handsome chap out there for almost 16 years now, and I am so much much happier than you appear to be.
My ex husband, who I'm still friends with, was older than me by 3 years. He was also a really nice guy, which is why we are still friends.
SERIOUSLY DUDE!!!! YOU ARE PROBABLY NOT HAVING LUCK WITH THE WOMEN BECAUSE WE CAN SENSE YOUR BITTERNESS AND ATTITUDE AND WE DON'T LIKE IT!
A lot of girls want genuinely nice guys, the issue there is that you aren't a nice guy. Little things like that matter in a relationship.
shareDAMN LOL
shareIn my experience: guys who label themselves as "nice guys" tend to not genuinely be as such. So when things don't go their way, they complain and show their true nature. Once again I don't want to generalize.
shareI don’t want to generalize either booboocat, but let’s be honest. The bad boys got the big dicks.
shareHahaha once again, this is reportedly not ALWAYS true. 😅 I once work with a girl who slept with this built up guy (you know à la Dwayne Johnson) and he was acting all "bad boy". Apparently, he was awful in bed and had a tiny dick.
Of course this is just one example and might as well be an exception(I don't know I'm not really interested to discuss dicks and performance in bed with other people lol).
The key word is “acting”. These types are called fuckboys.
I love talking about dicks! Anytime girl. Check out the song I just put on the “are you listening” thread. I think you’ll appreciate it.😃
You thought I was a guy right booboocat? Just curious.
shareHmmmm... yes? 😅And now with what you just wrote I kinda feel bad... why? Just out of curiosity.
shareWhy do you feel bad? I don’t know, it doesn’t offend me. It’s ok if you came here to get some male attention and flirt with the boys. You edited your response, were you embarrassed? Earlier, when you thought I was a guy, you said you liked to talk about dicks and performance in bed with other people. That’s how you try to get boys to pay attention to you. That’s fine sweetie, it’s your prerogative. We all have our own reasons for coming here.
I’m not sure if you’ve had the opportunity to meet moviebuff yet, but I think you two would be perfect for each other. I’m pretty sure you’re exactly his type. Sorry to disappoint you by being a female. Laters booboo cat.
You edited your response, were you embarrassed? Earlier, when you thought I was a guy, you said you liked to talk about dicks and performance in bed with other people.
Yeah no I'm not embarrassed. It simply because I realized I forgot to write "not". 😅 It was initially my intention. Funny how one word could change everything lol.
I'm actually simply not interested with other people's sex lives, period. I have mine to take care of and it's plenty lol.
Ooooh ok. You just forgot to write not. Maybe I misjudged you then, or maybe you’re just full of shit. Doesn’t matter to me either way.
shareExcuse me, I think there was a real misunderstanding somewhere that I missed... what did I do/say to deserve a bonderline hostile reaction from you? Because I really fail to see the reason. If I said something wrong, I'd sure be glad to either apologize or explain myself. As far as I see, I tried to be as fair as possible in everything I said... sorry if it's not the case. I would like to know though.
Nah, you’re good girl. Do you.
shareIm so bad at this....some posters, I just can’t tell the gender...some I can distinguish for whatever reason...The screen names obviously are ambiguous at times so that doesn’t help....for some reason, froggy, I could tell you were a pretty mama, but others I’m lost....I just replied to BooBooCat in another thread, the subject was about diet and exercise and I just assumed it was a male I was responding to....froggy, talk to me like I’m a second grader, Boo is a lady?...I’m slow, now that I think about it, that name does sound gender specific, lol....what do I know, I’m a 6-2, 210-pound male with broad shoulders and a Barry White deep voice -without the talent- whose go-to karaoke song is this :
https://youtu.be/ZJL4UGSbeFg
Oh brother, I think I need a drink...
I’m all ooo 6’2, broad shoulders and deep voice, damn!
...and then
Shania Twain!!😟
Booboocat leads me to believe she is a girl because of the dumb name (my humble opinion). However, it’s the internet and that occurred to me as well that she might be a male. Who gives a fuck I guess. You never know who you’re talking to, some just seem more genuine than others. I’m drunk too and edited this 15 times.
Yeah, I can be a bit clownish at times for the laughs, sometimes for two shows nightly...
You’re all right, I think I now know why you were in punk mode earlier after we interacted at the ‘what are you listening to’ water cooler...i saw the ‘karen’ thread, some characters there, to put it lightly....hang in there, girlfriend, keep up the good fight but don’t bog yourself down in the mud too much....remember, certain people don’t mind getting down in the mud, because they’re already dirty...cheers! I hear indica helps, lol...
I'm a guy, Boo is the actual name of my cat (female). Now froggy seems to have a real grip against me and I really don't understand why. Maybe I seemed to support MovieBuff (she did basically call me gay and that I would fit perfectly with him). So just for the record, I do not share his views and when I wrote my remark in which I sort of agreed with some of his points, I had not read everything that was posted here. I now realize why people are criticizing him.
I usually simply don't like to think with the extrems and I love to nuance things. This is why I usually don't fully agree nor disagree with people. I think that most subjects are not simply black or white and tend to have some middle ground to discuss. This is why I kinda agreed with some aspects of what MovieBuff said. By no mean do I share his obvious frustration toward women.
I'm still mew here and I'm still discovering and learning to know the users lol.
Aw, froggys cool, she just needs someone to throw punk songs/anthems at her for the rest of her life...she one of my new faves, the chica’s got some sass, but shes good people, I’ve never had a problem with her...
Sorry for the mistaken identity, cat, I didn’t mean anything by it, but I really am bad sometimes at realizing who I’m talking to, which shouldn’t really matter if the convo is cool, cordial, and fun...that’s what most of us like and prefer, there’s always going to be those that like confrontation, chaos and mayhem, I try to stay clear of them....welcome, and get some bey-beh!
So you’re saying you don’t want to talk about dicks? Sorry, I’ll take it down a notch. I’m still feeling you out too, and it’s possible I can just be a bitch sometimes. I’m working on it.
shareNo offense taken. I don't talk about other people's dicks and don't ask about it because I honestly don't care lol. But if someone REALLY feel the need to share his dick's size with me, I won't dismiss him neither. I'd put it that way. I'm a straight guy and the only two people for whom my dick has any relevance is me and my girlfriend. So I don't feel the need to share it with the world.
I hope it cleared the water because I have not intention to have any conflict with anyone.
No this is 100% my faultand I’m really sorry. I was quick to judge you which not only makes me an asshole but a hypocrite. Truly I’m sorry. I will learn from this to improve myself as a person. You are far more forgiving than I. ✌️
shareDon’t be so hard on yourself, dear....you’re,a stand-up gal, you’re just feisty and fun, and I dig that about you!....you’re this:
https://youtu.be/D7sUh-DX7I0
Get some!
Yeah, talking about cocks is like criticizing a child — unless its your own, it’s probably best to stay clear from the convo unless everybody can take the conversation without getting uptight about it...but in the context of Miss frogandtoad and women in which you build a friendly rapport, I think it’s okay and sorta humorous, it’s kinda cool to know my sisters in the struggle can be just as playfully crude as us guys...I have a playful but sometimes dark sense of humor, so that”s one of the reasons why froggy and I get along...just a warning, BooCat, this place can be harsh and tough at times, not all the time, but sometimes, so just be careful and sit back and enjoy the scenery ...soon enough you’’ll see how things work around here...in the meantime, Get Some!
Good times!
Yeah, I totally thought booboocat was a chick and we were bonding over our love of dicks.😂oops
shareEntertaining sub-thread, btw
shareHere's another one; "All girls will either screw on the first date, or the 3rd one, and if you two don't do it at all, someone's gonna be disappointed and upset later on."
shareI'll give you a blowy if you shut up.
shareI appreciate your humour.
shareI can’t get enough of this reply....the past few days when I’m dragging or lamenting this lockdown I just think of this retort, so eloquent in its brevity, and I just smile and fucking LOL! So damn classic!
But I do find myself wanting to say in response a little something I heard from a dead hitman I once knew:
“Miss Laura, you give that fucking nimrod a blowy and I’ll shoot him out of general principle!”
Good day all!...and yeah, no offense, OP....
"You know that chick that can pick up any guy, I'm her, on crack."
What do we make of the fact that OP has not replied?
Lol
No, and i respect you taking one for the team...hahahaha, never mind, much love, that blowy line has stayed stayed with me since I read it, it’s so LMFAO, well played
Get some bey-beh!
Why he’s hasn’t replied?....cause you’re a manslayer, and he’s possibly scared, but I like to think of you more like this ...
https://youtu.be/Bz6DRvQmxwQ
A moviebluff thread coming soon (pun intended): -
I’m a genuinely intelligent, articulate, nice guy who normally has to beat off girls with a shitty stick (because I’m such a catch), but having conducted thorough research finds that girls will only blow guys with big dicks - what’s with that, right?
Dude just chill out with the negative vibes!
shareWhy? He has tendency for these kind of posts?
shareI’m talking to him
shareYou don't say!!!
I'm just new here and I'm curious to know a little bit about the users. This is why I asked. But okay if you are going to answer to me like that, at least I have an idea about what kind of individual YOU are.
I’m sorry. I did not mean it in that way but after reading I can see why you thought that. I thought you were confused about who I was talking to. So sorry.
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