Similar experience from the other side here.
I had to leave my black Lab/Rott mix with my parents for what was supposed to be a few months because I was training for a job in a different state.
Long story short, 6 months turned into a little over a year for reasons out of my control, and by that time my dog had become so accustomed to living with my parents. She had 2 other dogs to play with and a big yard. All I had was my 1BR apartment. Not to mention they were both retired and I was working long hours. Just wouldn't have been good for her.
So I made the absolutely heartbreaking decision to leave her there with them permanently. Luckily I lived about 20 minutes away so I could visit constantly. My girlfriend at the time would joke that I loved my dog more than her(she was right), because of how often I wouldn't be home because I was at my parents so often.
My parents were very skeptical of having a dog that size in their house as they'd only ever owned small dogs. My mom was worried she would knock things over/off of tables.. I just laughed, because she was the absolute most gentle dog you'd ever meet.
After that first year, my parents had become so attached to her that it would have been equally devastating for them if I had taken her back, even though they already had 2 dogs of their own. So I get your sentiment.
She passed a few years ago, and my mom still reminisces about her all the time. Now I have a rambunctious boy who just turned 2 that they get to spoil with treats when I visit.
EDIT - Sorry, I guess that wasn't so short after all.
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