Attitude of Gratitude
Being grateful is important. Unhappy people aren't grateful, they think "Why should I be?"
Whenever I'm down I try and think of things I'm grateful for.
Just a Thanksgiving thought.
Being grateful is important. Unhappy people aren't grateful, they think "Why should I be?"
Whenever I'm down I try and think of things I'm grateful for.
Just a Thanksgiving thought.
Everyone can find something to be grateful for, and I think it's lovely that a holiday has been dedicated to gratitude and appreciation, regardless of their religion, race, background, mental health, etc.
I myself and overwhelmingly grateful right now, earlier this year I got a new job and it's such an improvement! I got away from a job that was destroying my health to one where I can recuperate, I like the work, and the pay is good. THANK YOU, WHATEVER POWERS THAT BE!!!!!
I had a job for 17 years that seemed worth putting forth the effort, but eventually it seemed no matter how hard I worked, the bosses kept a crappy attitude and didn't care what the workload was. It wasn't their job to work hard; it was mine.
I also came to realize that if you have a crappy job you're going to be working with and for crappy people. Having a good attitude is practically an indictment when you are overworked and try to be chipper. Must not be working hard enough.
Truly I don't mean to be negative and dour but these days I feel like a stranger in a strange land.
I'm happy you're here.
shareAs a general principle I agree that gratitude can have tremendous utility and America's Thanksgiving Day is a practical embodiment of the idea.
Personally I don't go in for it because it seems to me that gratitude is an emotion you feel towards a person or towards people and that is not something that has featured in any significant way in my life. You might say I could feel gratitude toward the people who work to put food on my table and a roof over my head but then they get paid for doing that. I worked and nobody showed any gratitude to me and I didn't expect them to. I was working for pay.
Of course if you believe in God then you're all set because you can be grateful to God for everything good in your life and that's a good chunk of the utility of religion right there. But after Charles Darwin that is a hard sell for many people. So I try to have a sense of appreciation for good things in my life and a sense of relief for having avoided some bad things in my life. It's not as psychologically useful as gratitude but it's something.
If you can't bring yourself to be grateful to other humans for their hard work, then try being grateful for *something*. Be grateful to mother nature for bringing flowers in the springtime or snow to ski on in winter, or be grateful to Hollywood for making your favorite movies and TV shows, or be grateful to Rupert Murdoch for telling you what you want to hear, whatever.
Or be grateful to your mother for letting you live in the basement and devote your life to trolling.
Well you are sounding like a lower volume and verbose version of db20db. Funny about that. Try reading what I wrote slowly because it is a considered and coherent response to the OP.
My mother died over 25 years ago and she never lived in a house with a basement. And you have the nerve to accuse me of trolling.
Hah, that's rich and typical of your extremely arrogant, hypocritical, projecting pattern on this board, namely, bitching about supposedly being falsely accused of something when that's exactly what you've done with other posters consistently. You've had the nerve to accuse so many posters here of being liars and sock puppets just because you're a resentful, angry-at-the-world, paranoid conspiracy nut.
shareSIMPLE WORDS...YOU ARE A DICK. NOEMOJI
shareWhat convoluted bs! As if "a sense of appreciation" and "gratitude" aren't one and the same.🙄.
shareI like your sentiment👍
I always keep my work door open so my coworkers feel welcome to come in and have a chat.
Something about lending an ear or a shoulder to another person can make you very happy.
Being grateful is really important as well, many of us are very fortunate.
I respect the sentiment, but I think toxic positivity is almost as bad as ingratitude when you're down. Mental illness and depression make it difficult to feel gratitude, it's a literal mental block and they can't help it. However, loads of unhappy people are still grateful for what good is present in their lives, people often experience multiple feelings at once, and some genuinely don't have much to be grateful for or have more to be unhappy about.
shareInteresting. I haven't encountered anyone else using that expression in years. It's become somewhat of a mantra for me. Saying thank you when out in public has become deeply ingrained in me. Today, I had one of the best Thanksgiving celebrations I've had in years. I was grateful just to have been able to attend that event and have been basking in the afterglow for hours now.
shareAttitude and gratitude also RHYME, lol. :)
shareIve always know I'm going home where I belong. This place ain't home and I don't belong.
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