That is a different situation where someone has been rude to you. But if you said "thanks miss" (which actually isn't something that most women like to be called btw) and the person said, "you're welcome, but please don't call me miss, I prefer _____" and you say I'm not going to call you ______. You could be hurting them. What if they actually were a man? Would it not be fine for them to say something then?
If someone is rude or aggressive with their pronouns, then you have a right to be rude back. But to just say to someone "You're delusional, I'm not going to take part in your fucked up fantasy" just because they wish to use "they/them" instead of "she/her", then yeah, I think that is your problem.
You seem to think that everyone who wishes to be "They/Them" is trans. At least that's the impression I get. They could just be someone who feels that gender roles aren't for them. You don't know their story. You say that you would be respectful, but you haven't shown that at all.
You are talking about truth again. Which truth? How is it really?
Not how we WISH or FEEL it should be, but how it actually is.
If that were true we would all still be living in caves. Or under brutal kings. Change happens because of how we wish things could be.
Once more, you have not encountered a person who uses different pronouns. You are assuming the worst case scenario, and you are angry about it. This place seems to be obsessed with trans people, and how they are forcing themselves down everyone's throats. Where are they? Is there any one here who has identified themselves as trans? I mean honestly. Please show me where an actual trans person has tried to force you to accept anything.
You think that being rude to someone over something that they struggle with wouldn't cause them any pain? I really feel for you, and your apparent lack of empathy. It's just a name, or a pronoun. Do you insist on calling Vin Diesel Mark? Do you insist on calling Nikki Minaj, Onika?
Will I see you calling Reese Witherspoon Laura? If not then you are fine calling people names that are different than what they were born with.
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