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Why does a 14 year old...


Need a babysitter? Is it just because he’s a pu$$y and is afraid to be home by himself?

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Because it's necessary for the plot, genius. If he was 8 years old they would have killed him right away. THE END. He had to be old enough to fight back.

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You didn’t answer the question you idiot. It doesn’t make sense in the context of the movie .that’s like you complaining about Bruce making it back to Gotham and my reply is “well if he didn’t then Gotham would have blown up”. It’s nonsense

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If you want an in-world explanation: his parents are uptight, and don't trust him to behave himself if he's left alone in the house overnight. But my point stands, he had to be old enough to believably fight back. If he was like Macaulay Culkin in Home Alone it would've been a totally different movie. So you make him 14. It's not like this film is meant to be taken all that seriously. Plot necessity/convenience is the real explanation for many details in many different movies and TV shows.

I think you're letting your bitterness creep in from other threads, onemanarmy82. Need to work on that! 🤭

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I didn’t ask what the reason was from a writing standpoint, genius. I asked you to address why a 14 year old would not only require a babysitter but would be ok with it. Both defy the laws of logic you moron. Lol what bitterness? I totally own you apparently to the level that you follow me to other threads seeking my attention.

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His babysitter was hot and his only friend.

Satisfied?

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Right but there was no chance he was going to get any so really the whole thing was just a tease which sucks

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So there’s just no acceptable answer for you. Got it.

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Yes I only accept logical answers, that which you have not provided.

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There’s been plenty of logical answers provided by me and others that you just don’t agree with. I agree that a 14 year old shouldn’t need a babysitter. However, some parents are overbearing but that wasn’t acceptable to you. My younger cousin never slept a night that wasn’t under same roof as his parents until he went to college. Then you said why would the kid allow it. And my answer was very reasonable. But because she’s not a pedophile, it’s somehow not logical that a 14 year old would have unrealistic expectations.

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I have not received a single logical answer. 14 year olds don't need a babysitter and if a 14 year old's parents got them a babysitter they would have a problem with it.

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You can’t speak for every 14 year old or parent in the world.

Just accept your reasoning then. He’s afraid to be home alone by himself. They are all reasonable.

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And you accept that’s not normal for a 14 year old boy

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I do. We’re talking about a movie where they are sacrificing a child to the devil so they can get their dreams fulfilled.

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Right but that doesn’t establish a universe where a 14 year old is ok with having a babysitter. There has to be a method to the madness, this movie doesn’t have one

Example: in Edward scissorhands it would normally not make sense that they would have him sleeping in a waterbed when there is a foldout couch downstairs but it was established early on that Peg was an idiot and this is also the universe where the inventor taught him etiquette before removing the scissors so therefore having him sleep in a waterbed makes sense because it’s consistent with the established universe and how these characters have been acting

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The babysitter is hot. What 14 year old boy wouldn’t want a hot babysitter to fantasize about?

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Considering there was a zero percent chance he was going to get any it’s just a big tease

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Who cares? Men like to be around hot women even if they won’t fuck them.

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I don't like being teased

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I'm 34, and if Samara Weaving was willing to babysit me, I wouldn't say no either!

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😳

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In the U.K. it’s illegal (obviously) to leave a child alone if it’s at risk, and although there is no legal age, the guidelines suggest...
* children under 12 are rarely mature enough to be left alone for a long period of time
* children under 16 should not be left alone overnight*
* babies, toddlers and very young children should never be left alone

*So, maybe he would be a risk to himself (if he was in the U.K.)?? I can’t remember if it is overnight in the film lol

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It's not up to the kid its up to the parents surely?

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Right but why would the parents think it’s necessary?

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Cos the kids a dumb fuck who will try to make toast and burn the house down,
or get some ice cream and leave the freezer open to defrost
or invite 300 instagram friends round ....
etc etc

Plenty of 14 year olds are not trustworthy enough to leave alone in your house.

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Strange, the kid seemed to be halfway competent as well. I was babysitting my little brother when I was far younger as well.

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YOU EITHER DONT HAVE KIDS OR DONT CARE ABOUT THEM MUCH....A 14 YEAR OLD 100% NEEDS A BABYSITTER.

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She was only a few years older than him. A 14 year old is capable of staying home without mommy and daddy and cole seemed to be a fairly mature and responsible kid. Also 14 year olds would be offended by the idea of a babysitter but he seemed to love it

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SOME 14 YEAR OLD MAY BE CAPABLE...STILL A THOUSAND THINGS THAT COULD HAPPEN,A BABYSITTER IS STANDARD/NORMAL...THINK OF THE SHIT YOU GOT UP TO WHEN YOU WERE 14...AS PARENTS NOW,WE REMEMBER...TRUSTWORTHY BUT NOT FULLY TRUSTED.

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I didn’t get into any shit. When I was left home alone I did exactly what I was supposed to

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I HOPE YOU GOT A NICE ALLOWANCE...MOST TEENAGERS ARENT SO WELL BEHAVED.

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I never got an allowance, I just did what I was supposed to because it was the right thing to do. The last time I had a babysitter I was 10

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I never got an allowance, I just did what I was supposed to because it was the right thing to do.


I call bullshit! 🤣

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Prove it, or are you only going to provide speculation and assumptions like usual?

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Oh, come on. You were a bratty little shithead as a child and we all know it. It's not like you've changed that much.

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Got it so baseless speculation. Your babysitter called, you’re up past your bedtime and it’s time to tuck you in

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Good one, Butthead. Heh heh heh heh heh heh ... cool.

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Now you've reduced yourself to a pathetic attempt at personal insults. I'll take that as your concession, loser.

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How many times are you going to use that line ... loser. Seriously, you're like a one routine stand up comic who doesn't realize it's gotten old. Time to come up with some new material! 🤭

Or you could just log out and log back in under one of your other usernames. Because that would totally fool us.

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Comical irony: coming from the guy who literally spams the board with the same exact message. You always do this, whenever you get boxed into a corner you always divert the conversation to an infantile match of middle school level insults. You are completely and utterly pathetic and you are flaming libtard crybaby.

Also FYI: can it with your conspiracy theories, either actually back them up with real evidence or STFU, loser.

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So ... you want to get doxxed, is that what you're saying? You want all your accounts and maybe your real name and address posted right here for the world to see? I'd think about that if I were you. I doubt you really want me to prove it.

I can't count the number of times I've laid out my positions in detail, and the reasons for them, only to get more evasion and deflection from the likes of you. You can never actually refute the truth of what I've said so you default back to the old talking points. It's amusing to think and talk rings around someone, then have the clueless moron declare victory. They're just too damn stupid to realize what's happened. I almost feel sorry for you. Almost. 😎

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Yes please humor me, please show me the links to all of my accounts. Now I have changed my username often but that doesn't constitute a sock account unless I am actively using multiple accounts. Please show me the evidence, junior.

And then I demolished your "position" and as a last ditch effort you quit talking about the topic and instead decide to have what basically equates to a "yo mama" fight. You seem to get very defensive when I ask you to defend your position with actual evidence and not assumptions. You are the worst debater I have ever come across and you are even more pathetic than moviefanatic, and that is saying something.

I bet you fantasize each night about Kamala Harris being your babysitter and tucking you in every night, get help you demented freak.

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Kamala Harris? Where the hell did that come from? 🤣

Although ... I had a dream the other night, I was at the Capitol riot and they actually did hang Mike Pence.

You couldn't demolish a sand castle, sport. They'll be plowing snow in hell the day you manage to out-debate me on anything. Debating isn't what you do. You're just not mentally suited for it.

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So now you're fantasizing about killing politicians you don't like. Typical libtard hypocrisy. You should be arrested for inciting violence with that post.

As for where Kamala Harris came from you clearly have a babysitter fetish considering you replied to this comment: "I'm 34, and if Samara Weaving was willing to babysit me, I wouldn't say no either!" with this emoji: 😳. Clearly that's your thing and you and your cult definitely worship Kamala Harris just because she's not white and a woman, those are the only qualifications your cult requires.

You are so deluded you don't even realize the savage beating you've been given. Lay off the fake news, it's rotting your brain and distancing you from reality.

Also I thought you were going to post links to all of my alleged sock accounts, guess you cowarded out on that one as you usually do. Again you've proven my point

Edit: Lay off those stupid emojis, what are you 12? At least pretend to act like an adult.

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I never incited any violence. Just described a dream I had.

Sign out, log back in, respond to one thread, log out, sign back in, respond to another. You've had a lot of practice doing that, haven't you? Even if I cared enough to spend the time investigating, outing you would get me a permanent ban. I'm sure you'd like that, my being a thorn in your side and all, but it's not going to be that easy. Sorry!

Samara Weaving is around 30. Perfectly healthy for a 34 year old man to imagine being in her "care". Nothing to do with Kamala Harris though. People on the left don't worship those they support. That's a key difference. The word support doesn't mean to us what it means to you - total, mindless fealty.

I stay away from right wing media, so the brain rotting fake news never touches my BS allergic neurons.

You don't like emojis? I seem to recall you're the one who posts long chains of them, as if 15 laughing faces are 15 times as funny as one. 🤪

Look, we're not on the politics board so this conversation should end now. I'm sure we'll meet again soon though.

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You clearly were wishing death upon the Vice President, you should be arrested and prosecuted, that is reckless rhetoric and you were inciting violence.

Please show me evidence that I have "signed out, logged back in, responded to one thread, logged out, signed back in and responded to another"?

"Even if I cared enough to spend the time investigating, outing you would get me a permanent ban. I'm sure you'd like that, my being a thorn in your side and all, but it's not going to be that easy.":

Hahahahahaha, of course you won't do it because you know you're lying. You are the one who said that you would post evidence and now that you've been called out you are hiding behind the threat of being banned, wow you are a coward. And I get a kick out of dominating you, you aren't even a challenge, you're just a pathetic libtard who keeps getting put in his place.

Uhhhh, no that's pretty freaky but you do you you demented loser. You definitely fantasize about Kamala Harris being your babysitter, the evidence is overwhelming. You absolutely worship her, you bow before her at your cult meetings where you fantasize about hanging Mike Pence, you people are demented and crazy. You blindly follow whatever her and the rest of the libtards say, that's called being brainwashed, you have been indoctrinated by your cult.

I get it, you prefer the fake news that tells you what you want to hear and validates your opinion. That's what cults do.

Oh so now you're asserting that I've used emojis, please show me the post where I did it, I have a feeling you're going to make up another excuse as you always do. Your cult definitely taught you to debate that way.

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"You absolutely worship him, you bow before him at your cult meetings, you people are demented and crazy. You blindly follow whatever he says, that's called being brainwashed, you have been indoctrinated by your cult"

Sounds a lot like Trumpers.

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Naw it summarizes the libtards pretty accurately. Aside from a few people "Trumpers" are mostly moderate and level headed unlike the libtard cult which is sadly growing in power. Personal freedom and low taxes are not radical ideas, the libtard cult is the very definition of radical.

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Whatever helps you sleep at night.

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Concession noted.

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There's that line again. Boooooring! I thought I told you to buzz off and go somewhere else. This is a movie thread.

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Coming from the guy who literally spams the board with the same message. Seek help you libtard cultist. Also i see you have given up once again, history continues to repeat itself

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You keep saying the same thing douche bag. Are you a human or a bot? Run along now. I won't be checking back on this thread, so feel free to satisfy your need to have the last word.

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That’s because you give me the same damn comment to reply to and you literally posted the same message at least ten times in a row. You are beyond brainwashed you can’t even see your own hypocrisy and double standards, your cult has clearly brainwashed you. You people are like the Thuggees from Temple of Doom or the Baron Samedi worshipers from Live and Let Die. It’s really scary. You are literally a broken record and you are clearly too dumb to use more than a few catch phrases and then slowly shift the conversation to the equivalent of a “yo mama” fight. “Have to have the last word” there you go again, that has to be the 50th time you’ve said that. You are literally a broken record . Deflection is like your only debate strategy, you keep accusing me of repeating yourself (despite doing that frequently yourself) whenever you have to find a way out of the discussion because you’re getting humiliated too badly. Yes make up whatever excuse you can to save face and get out of the discussion, run away little coward to your babysitter (although seeing how much power I have over you you’re bound to come back for more punishment soon).

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I don't believe him either. I don't believe he is a principal either. He is too dumb for that.

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How many small children always do what they're supposed to do? Unless they're severely beaten if they don't, or something abusive like that. Anyone who claims they always behaved is lying their ass off.

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Not necessarily. When I was 14 I WAS the babysitter.

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What shithole state do you live in?

Here babysitters start at 12. The Red Cross offers a course for 11-15 year olds. The courts say under 10 should not be left alone.

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A nanny state!

[rimshot!]

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CALIFORNIA...AND I CARE FOR MY OWN CHILD...DOESNT MATTER WHAT ANYONE CERTIFIES,A CHILD IS ONLY READY TO BE ALONE WHEN THEY ARE READY...THEY ARENT ALL MATURE MINI ADULTS AT 14.

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i mean.. it's not necessary but he's kind of a wimp.

the parents did not TRUST the kid at all.. and the dad probably had his own fantasies about Samara. mmhmm
that's my take.

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He's supposed to be 12. That's transition age. He may or may not need one. As others have stated it's up to the parents (and the law.

https://www.moms.com/when-is-a-child-too-old-to-need-a-babysitter/

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This thread reminds me of an episode from Head of the Class. Asian immigrant parents hire a babysitter for their 16 year old son. At first he objects. The girl who shows up is a girl from his class that he's been trying to ask out. So then he starts contriving stories to trick her into staying.

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Oh OK 12 might need a babysitter for an extended period of time. That makes more sense, honestly the movie was so dumb I wasn't really paying attention.

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NOBODY LEAVES A 14 YEAR OLD BOY HOME ALONE FOR LONGER THAN A HALF HOUR...PLAIN AND SIMPLE...I USED TO BE ONE,AND I AM NOW THE PARENT OF AN ALMOST 13 YEAR OLD...THIS ENTIRE THREAD IS STUPID,AS IT WORKS OFF YOUR SPECULATION THAT NO 14 YEAR OLD NEEDS NOR ACCEPTS A BABYSITTER...MAYBE A 14 YEAR OLD GETS THE RESPECT OF A FEW HOURS UNSUPERVISED,MAYBE...OVERNIGHT IS OFF THE TABLE THOUGH.

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I was left alone that long all the time, heck I was the one babysitting my little brother for that amount of time. If the kid might you know throw a wild party while the parents are gone then that's a cause of concern but it was established that this kid would never do anything of the sort and any 14 year old boy would feel totally emasculated by the concept.

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YOU WERE AN EXCEPTION,NOT THE RULE...IT WAS ALSO IN THE PAST...THINGS CHANGE...IM TELLING YOU CHIEF..IM A PARENT OF AN ALMOST 13 YEAR OLD AND FRIENDLY WITH A LOT OF OTHER PARENTS...A 14 YEAR OLD MIGHT GET SOME AFTER SCHOOL TRUST...BUT IF ITS OVERNIGHT...ZERO CHANCE OF THEM BEING ALONE.

OF COURSE..."it was established that this kid would never do anything of the sort and any 14 year old boy would feel totally emasculated by the concept."...MAKES ME THINK YOURE ABOUT 14 YOURSELF,SO MAYBE I JUST STOP TALKING TO YOU...🤔

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I don't know what kind of sheltered world you live in, but a 14 year old is plenty old enough to stay home alone. By that age, they are going out with friends, going to parties(8th grade ones but still), and can generally be trusted to not burn the house down or kill themselves for a few hours.

And stop using all caps weirdo! Maybe the reason your kids maturity is stunted is because you keep yelling at them.

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I JUST SAID THAT...FOR A FEW HOURS...ITS NOT A SHELTERED WORLD...ITS A PROPERLY PARENTED WORLD I LIVE IN...AT THAT AGE I TRUST MY KID BUT ONLY TO A CERTAIN EXTENT...I MEAN COME ON...HER BRAIN WONT EVEN FINISH DEVELOPING FOR ANOTHER DECADE.

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There's a scene in the movie where the dad is teaching him to drive for godsakes. Clearly he's transitioning into early adulthood. The dad even ask if his friends make fun of him for still having a babysitter(an obvious yes).

Granted, if it was overnight, I would prefer to drop my kid at a friends house or with a relative, but if I can't trust them home alone at that age by themselves, I'll probably be taking care of them well into their 30's.

Hell with a cellphone I can pretty much put an electronic leash on my child and know the second he steps out the front door if I was feeling that worried.

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AFTER THE DRIVING LESSON HE MURDERED SOME PEOPLE AND ACTED LIKE A GIANT BLOOD THIRSTY BABY...HE DEFINITELY NEEDED A BABYSITTER.

YEAH,IF I CANT LEAVE MY YOUNG TEEN HOME ALONE HOW WILL I EVER HAVE ANY TIME TO PARTY MYSELF.🤔

THE CELLPHONE ACTIVATES MORE PROBLEMS THAN IT EASES.

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He killed them in self-defense. I'd hope my child of any age is capable of the same.

As for leaving them alone, it isn't about me. It's about teaching responsibility and molding them into fully functioning adults. It's the same reason my kids been doing his own laundry since he was 10 and learning to cook since 13. Keeping training wheels on too long isn't doing them any favors.

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LOL

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Exactly, 14 year old is way too old to need a babysitter, especially one that's only a few years older. I think people who disagree with this are failed parents who let their kids get out of control.

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YOU DONT HAVE ANY KIDS...YOU SOUND TO BE ABOUT 15 YOURSELF.

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I have 3 daughters, 1 of which is out of the house, the second will be at the end of this year and both were mature enough to be alone at age 14 because I taught them personal responsibility

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You’re not under 16? Mind = Blown.

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Please stop spamming and trolling my thread

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🙂SO YOU COULD PARENT LESS.

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No more along the line that I did such a great job parenting I could leave them alone and despite telling a neighbor to keep a casual eye on them I knew they would be able to handle it.

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LEAVE THEM ALONE...THUS LEAVING YOU ALONE...I GOT IT.

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Right you are totally correct, I took the time to properly parent my children for 14 years so that 14 years later I could have a few nights out and not have to hire a babysitter, you just unraveled my entire conspiracy

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"great job parenting"..."took the time to properly parent"

DID YOUR KIDS INHERIT YOUR GIGANTIC EGO?🤔

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Does your wife hire a babysitter when you're home alone?

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MY WIFE IS USELESS WHERE IT CONCERNS PARENTING...I RAISED MY DAUGHTER FROM DAY ONE...EVERY DIAPER,BOTTLE,DOCTOR,HOMEWORK,ETC...I AM THE PARENT...AND NOT ALL KIDS ARE READY TO BE LEFT ALONE AT SOME ARBITRARY AGE...ALTHOUGH THERE ARE PLENTY OF LAZY ASSHAT PARENTS WHO GREW UP UNTENDED AND TURNED OUT SCUMMY WHO THINK THATS THE WAY BASED ON THERE OWN SKETCHY CHILDHOOD.

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