Not realistic


I think it's too bad that the main character is this perfect-looking girl with great hair, great body, etc. The reality is that the kids who get cyberbullied usually have something about them that makes them a target. I don't think that kids who watch this movie are going to be able to relate to this beautiful, socially competent girl.
Also, the filmmakers seem to think that calling someone a slut is the worst insult that can possibly happen to a teenager. Have they not seen Easy A? Or met any of this generation's teenagers? Being sexually active is not considered a "loser" quality.

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I think it's actually kind of naive to say that just because a girl is pretty, blonde and built well that she can't be subject to bullying and other forms of emotional/verbal abuse. This kind of thing can happen to anyone and a girl that seems pretty perfect to you could have incredibly low self esteem. Also, girls are mean to each other. They just are--especially in high school. They see a girl that's pretty and sweet and, if they're insecure with themselves or are jealous of something about that girl, they'll work to take her down or make her feel less than worthwhile about herself. It's horrible, but it happens all the time. Also, what high school did you go where being called a slut wasn't a bad thing? Girls with a reputation of being sexually active with a lot of guys weren't considered cool or interesting--they were thought of as dirty and gross, at least in my area and in the high schools around me. No one respected the slutty girls. And really, using Easy A as an example of how high school life is these days is kind of silly--and I don't know if you noticed, but her 'reputation' wasn't a good thing for her. She got propositioned constantly because guys thought she was easy, she was shunned by other girls and the adults in her life were generally just disappointed in the way she was behaving. In what way is that a good thing?

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What was really unrealistic was how she was discharged from the hospital with a psych appointment already scheduled. For the following week. Dream on, in most cities it usually takes a couple of months before you can be squeezed in as an outpatient. If only life were more like the movies...

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I didn't watch this movie but I graduated in '05 from a high school in a very affluent area. It's not shocking that people aren't realizing that kids in their schools were bullied because who would openly talk about it? It's humiliating for the one being bullied. Besides, it's much too easy to do it being a computer screen or a text message anyway.

Just because you don't "hear" about it doesn't mean it isn't going on. I was bullied in high school and I couldn't tell you one of my best friends who know about it.

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Actually, it is realistic. I've seen something very similar happen to a girl who looked similar to her. As the authority figure close to her in age, I helped her deal with it and recover.

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I think the point was to show that anyone can be the victim of bullying. At the support group she went to there were people of different sizes, races, and sexual orientation, and they were all there because at some point they have been or still are being bullied. It doesn't matter what you look like, people will attack when they see the smallest crack of insecurity and they will push you just for the fun of it, just to see how far they can go before you start to push back.


If you dont stand for something, you'll fall for anything :/

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Although this is just a movie, and not supposed to be considered realistic, I found it funny that the main character would consider suicide over name calling or even a video implying being fat. The other students overdo the whole inferiority complex stereotype, by just jumping to wild name calling the moment some stimulus comes along. I thought it was all very immature for anyone, even if they were portraying 13 year olds -- pfft! I got through high school okay. I wasn't part of the "cool" gangs, or whatever versions of that we had. But had bullying over cyberspace ever been part of the school culture, then fights would have been a once a day occurrence rather than a once a week/fortnight occurrence.

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WorldSacred, teenagers commit suicide all the time because of name calling. If you are called names everywhere you go, it messes you up to the point you think you're not worth breathing anymore. What do you think bullying IS? Candy sharing? Cyber bullying is probably even worse today - you can't escape it even when you are at home, browsing the web. ALL kinds of people are being bullied and when it comes to boys being bullied by other boys, it gets sinister.
Also, just because someone doesn't notice bullying at school, that doesn't mean it isn't happening. So many cases of bullying that end with a suicide or homicide come from peaceful, suburban areas where school principals swear they've never witnessed a single case of alarming behavior.

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As a person who has suffered bullying since he was 8 years old, I think your allegations that a person who gets name called all the time, everywhere you go, leaves the impression that the bullied person is targeted for some specific reason.

The movie shows a story about a girl who signs up for a chat group, and then finds out that someone hacked the girl's account and wrote some unflattering comments about her. The reaction to the posts were ridiculous unrealistic. Straight away, the other posters reacted with abuse and even threats of violence. All this, over some lewd comments -- unsubstantiated. Further elevated by the fact that school friends would tease her with apparent attitudes of psychopathic impunity, that it is doubtful that a chatroom could incite these students to act the way they did. Assuming that the students are old enough to drive (as depicted), we shouldn't see such immaturity take hold in real life.

What sort of bullying have you witnessed that leads you to believe that it causes suicide? I doubt that you have had death threats, or actual attempts against your life. But there you have it. And I'm still here.

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