Well, I grew up in Raymond, MS., just down the road from the house used as Mayor Tilman's was filmed. I grew up in this small town, outside of Jackson, from 1973-1992. I never was aware of any racism growing up. We all grew up together and went to the same schools. I remember in high school, we had a 30 minute break after second period. The students all milled about in the hallways and some class rooms. We didn't really have cliques. Sure white kids would tend to get together as well as the blacks. However, I don't recall any instances of anyone being shunned. If there were, it was usually because a person just wasn't liked by another or whatever, like typical teenagers.
Looking back, I recall the only doctor's office in town. You would walk in the front door and there was a waiting room to the left and another to the right. For some reason, the whites usually went left and the blacks went right. I don't recall any instructions as to which was which by my parents or the staff. As far as I know, it just was. I do recall some folks going to either side. The waiting area to the left was the access to the exam rooms in the back, so everybody had to go through there and would have to go there to sign in at the window.
Another thing was a large private pool just outside of downtown (as it were). I suppose you could say that it was a club because they charged an annual membership, but also had a daily rate of a dollar or so. They used to have baseball games and Fourth of July parties there when I was little, but not much in the later years. I can't say that I recall seeing any blacks there, but I can't say that there never were. I wouldn't say that it was based on racism as many whites wouldn't be able to go either. But, I never knew if there was any reason for the membership other than chemicals and upkeep.
All in all, I won't say that there weren't any racists in town. I knew of some kids who would say un-polite things or jokes in certain company, but they were very few. Of course there's the possibility that I was too young and was oblivious to it. My folks were protective, but I don't think they would have shielded me from anything, especially in my teen years. If it was there, for some reason or another, I never saw it.
BTW, someone was mentioning books to read. I recommend the Politically Incorrect Guide to the South (and Why It Will Rise Again) by Clint Johnson. In it, he highlights many of the great things of the South and how many are bent continuing the many myths about it. You also start to discover that the racism wasn't as widespread and slavery wasn't as bad as we're taught. It's similar to the Old West. When you really look into it and study it, it wasn't was wild and violent as TV, movies, books etc. make it out to be. NOTE: I am NOT saying that racism doesn't exist and that slavery wasn't a bad institution. I'm merely offering that it wasn't what we're told to believe.
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