YOU stated he did these things while married, which is 100% untrue. You are wrong, can't admit it, and are now attempting to deflect; which isn't shocking given your political leanings.
There is a misunderstanding here regarding the use of the word "while". I also misread it the first time.
Basically in that sentence, the "while married to a woman and having kids" is qualifying "Tom Hardy", not "...he's had sex with men before".
That said, I don't think we should be taking the "I'm an actor fucks sake" too literally. There's so many ways to interpret that exclamation without leaping to this absurd conclusion: :"having gay sex was just a given if you are a male actor"
I don't see the connection between growing up in the 70s and drug experimentation either, but I guess it was a thing, which is why everyone jokes about it.
Maybe people in theater are more sexually experimenting. I don't know. No one said they all did. Don't be weird.