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I might have answered (in an earlier reply), but it depends on many things. If it's a 'new' user, I have a shorter bullshit leash. If I read something stupid and insincere, I'll put them on Ignore. But this was something discussed when I was in college (I majored in Criminology and Sociology) and besides the usual, "It's not about sex, it's about power", I don't know how I would act, because I don't remember ever reading about rape.
This reminds me of an interaction years ago. Someone said, "Women fantasize being raped by a man", and the woman told the man, "Fantasizing about it does not mean we want it to happen" and I think it's probably the same for men. It's been over a decade since college, but we were taught the UCR (Uniformed Crime Reports) were the most accurate, but I don't know any rape statistics, if it's going up, down, etc.. I did hear about 30k-70k reports of sexual assault in the US military. I also remember a few generals saying this would happen, but then there's the other side who says men should control themselves, but then one can argue that in times of isolation, not having options, possibly seeing death and coming close to it, man probably becomes more "animal". I'm not conservative, but for the sake of the woman (and society in general), I would separate them. 70,000 women who are sexually assaulted will never be the same, and have to eventually come back to the US. I don't remember the stat, but I do remember how astounded we were at how women will pass up "good guys" and hook up with abusive men. I once asked a "friend with benefit" why she didn't date guys like me. She said something about liking the bad boy bullshit. I told her I had never been to jail, and never wanted to, and would never diminish myself for a woman, or anyone else.