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I’m serious I lol do anything to win over a beautiful woman.

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That sounds both shallow and desperate. That's a surefire way to guarantee that women in general, not just the beautiful ones, will be less attracted to you.

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I ain’t desperate at all. Very man needs a woman.

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since no women are stepping up, and they'd be subjective to their interests in men anyway, I will chime in with a few proven things men can do to be more attractive.

1. be sought after, not seeking or chasing. become what they look up to
2. smile. a lot. a lot more. a friendly smile is attractive
2.5 whiten teeth. the cheapest Crest White stripes do wonders, I get compliments ALL THE TIME
3. eye contact. almost to the point of creepy. take, keep and hold eye contact. it is a hypnotic power. even when she looks away, keep looking at her eyes (not boobs or lips) Practice this until ti becomes normal. I tend to focus on ONE eye instead of wondering which eye to keep. Darting back and forth can confuse them and look shifty
4. Learn to listen. Ask them questions about their interests and world. then don't say, " yeah.... I do this..", but ask them MORE follow up questions for more detail. this is an earnest way to get to know her. not fake, REAL listening.
5. dress better than the next guy. it's a game, you play to WIN, not come up second. spenda little money for good fitting clothes
6. same with shoes.
7. buy a popular but unique cologne. AXE BODY SPRAY screams I have no sense of style or self

Personality:
1. have one. I don't know you at all, so figure this one out. Are you interesting? do you ahve interests and hobbies? hobbies are great - it gets you out there among like minded to learn and grow. try sky diving, or take a dance class for the hell of it. do things you never thought you would. find things you really enjoy by yourself, other than texting and watching tiktok.
2. learn humor, and practice it. I think humor is close to the number one thing to attract women, seriously, a funny guy makes her feel good WITHOUT physical sex and she loves that! drop some jokes, but, move on. keep moving forward like that wasn't your best joke, maybe more to come later. funny random retorts in conversation, not telling a joke, just see the world in a unique fun way and slip that in.
3. do you offer things that interest the base set of women: financial stability and or growth, confidence, sensual appeal? (back up to dress the part) can you LISTEN, without FIXING? that's a tough one for men

Confindence, comedy, quality, confidence (twice) really goes far.

When all else fails, look up PUA. That works because it works. It doesn't have to be used for evil. :D

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Wow, that's way more helpful than my, in retrospect, demoralizing reply. Kudos to you! Take notes, OhJason.

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you were right though... BUT, he was confiding only to us, in a small group discussion, not saying that was his only approach. :) I hope

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Yeah I can listen

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How to convince a girl that her nightmares aren't real?

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ask her about the worst part, then research it and show her the truth about how it is completely false, here in the real world.

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