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my father used to beat me up when i was a kid


very badly , he used his belt to beat me , it happened in the 80's , whenever i misbehaved even for the smallest thing he whipped me with his belt , no matter how i implored him but he wouldn't stop , my father died when he was 51 for liver failure , he used to drink a lot but oddly he never abused me when he was drunk , only when he was sober , i just want to say that when he died i was relieved because i wouldn't be abused again but at the same time i was sad because i loved mu father , i'm conflicted of what to think but if anyone had the same same experience , please share...

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Not me, but I'm sure there are many, many others.

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My father did not use a belt and didn't beat me that often, but I was beaten sometimes.

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Cool story bro...

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fuck off!

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Should have picked a different username ?

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So you grew up in a normal family... so what?

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My father never used to beat us kids, so we made up for it by beating the crap out of each other.

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How about elementary school teachers making up for it by throwing books and globes at you in class?

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How about a hypothetical situation that never happened ? Perhaps someone else who is more at home with making things up and talking bullshit might respond. There should be no shortage of qualified people here at Moviechat.

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I just referenced "a hypothetical situation that never happened."

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Speaking of which.

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Don't know what that cryptic response was supposed to mean.

In the meantime, I like Judge Judy's mantra for discerning a liar: "If it doesn't make sense, it's probably not true."

And then there's this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJviK2YEBMU

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Oh, you're complaining about cryptic responses, that's rich. And who is supposed to be the authority on what makes sense ( and then on the basis of that supposedly isn't true ) on Moviechat, you or Judge Judy ? You really are full of it.

It seems to me that a great deal of what goes on doesn't make sense but it happens all the same.


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You're the one who approached me, asking why I was more inclined to believe one poster over another. And if anyone is full of it up there in his ivory tower, it's you, always suggesting that the majority of Moviechat posters are socks, liars or both.

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And if anyone is full of it up there in his ivory tower, it's you, always suggesting that the majority of Moviechat posters are socks, liars or both.


HOLY FUCK...YOU DID NOT JUST SAY THAT...WOW.🤣

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I didn't "approach you" you pompous ass, I replied to one of your posts. Who do you think you are, royalty !?

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You approached me twice on the subject of lying, credibility, liar. Once when you asked why I believed Andy King as opposed to another poster and most recently, in the Johnny Depp defamation thread where you were questioning his credibility. In both instances I gave you civil responses, even going so far the second time as to point out exactly where in the video you could find your answer. I could pull up the links to those exchanges, proving it, but you're not worth the time and effort. The above response was just an extension of that subject and you suddenly go apeshit over it. You're like a mongrel that bites the hand of someone trying to feed it.

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You do think you are royalty and you are a pompous ass. Firstly if I reply to a post I am not "approaching" that person I am simply replying to them, get that through your thick skull. Secondly just because you post a link it doesn't mean I am obliged to look at it or that I owe you a debt of gratitude for your having posted it. You have a ridiculously inflated sense of your own importance. Get over yourself.



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You're the one in the ivory tower, trying to come across like his shit doesn't stink. And speaking of thick skull, why do you have such an inane problem with the word "approach"? It's completely innocuous. If someone asks a poster a question or somehow solicits an opinion, that can definitely be perceived as approaching that poster. You're a ranting nut case over nitpicky semantics, trying to appear indignant, as if you've really been offended.

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You are a wind-up merchant and I'm done with you.

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Good. I regret all the attempts I've made, trying to get along with you. You've been a monumental waste of time.

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He's referring to me. That really happened, and he thinks I'm lying about it. But db20db is such as asshole that he uses any opportunity he has to go after people here.

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Not people, pricks like you, an admitted misanthrope who can't seem to comprehend experiencing some backlash from one of those people he hates by default.

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Me
Damosuzuki1
Kowalski
ShogunofYonkers
Quasimodo

And these are only the recent ones I remember. Ever think the common factor is you?

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The common factor is that not one of those posters is willing to admit to the part they have played in our not getting along. Of course, whiny, self-pitying you is at the top of the list!

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You're full of shit. As I've said before, your first negative post toward me was from a spelling error. No one else seems to have a problem with those people. You're the problem, not everyone else.

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Still whining about being corrected over a spelling error from years ago. How petty and childish. This is another reason you shouldn't be such an attention whore. You're way too thin-skinned.

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I'm not whining about it. I'm calling you out on your claim of:


The common factor is that not one of these posters is willing to admit to the part they have played in our not getting along.
Attacking people for a spelling error is on you. I've seen you do it to tcrum as well.

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Trying to rally yet another poster behind you in opposition to me. That's a really weak and desperate move. Tcrum and I are getting along just fine.

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Where's the rallying? And are you sure she feels the same way about you?

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Try out some of this advice. You might just appear more credible some day as a result. https://www.yourthoughtpartner.com/blog/bid/75382/starting-thought-absolutely-avoiding-absolutes

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You actually read that to make yourself better at arguing?

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Sure. It's a nice, succinct article and I posted it to emphasize how you're in the habit of using absolutes. And you're the one who tries to come across as some clever debater ( e.g. the Muddy Waters deflection), when you really just keep digging yourself in deeper and end up looking like even more of an ass.

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Does the article discuss online trolls who cry like a bitch when someone says something back at them?

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You're boring and wearisome.

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Then stop responding to me when I'm replying to someone else on a thread.

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I have a right to counter your lying bs.

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Then don't complain I'm wearisome. You can't have it both ways.

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You're wearisome with your tendency to keep dragging it out, just like you're doing now.

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You keep accusing other people of the poor behaviour you are guilty of yourself. So what is it, are you a troll or do you have mental health problems ?


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He really doesn't get it. He dishes so many insults to people and then gets mad when they defend themselves and insult him back.

There are so many people who have called him an asshole, and he somehow thinks they're the problem.

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I'm starting to think the guy is a wind-up merchant. Nobody could genuinely be this obtuse.

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Definitely. I can't believe he's retired. He acts like someone in high school who think he's smart because he heard a new word.

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You're often snarky, sarcastic, and judgmental when responding to others' harmless comments. That's not poor behavior? And your penchant for cryptic posts is part of your bag of tricks when it comes to being a deceitful prick.

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Which means you're dragging it out too, genius.
You just want to call me wearisome so you can get the last word in.

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You conveniently forgot boring.

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No I didn't. It's in the definition:

wearisome
/ˈwirisəm/
adjective
[more wearisome; most wearisome]
: causing you to feel bored, annoyed, or impatient : tiresome

https://www.britannica.com/dictionary/wearisome#:~:text=%2F%CB%88wiris%C9%99m%2F-,adjective,to%20the%20usual%20wearisome%20complaints.

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Whoop-de-do! You corrected me on a minor grammatical error. Should I interpret this as an attack or as you getting your much needed final word?

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Not an attack and never tried to get the final word.

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COME ON,CUTIE...COOL DOWN...samoanjoke IS SUPPOSED TO BE THE WORST...QUIT GIVING HIM COMPETITION FOR THE TOILET CROWN.😽

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PLEASE STOP,BABY...WE CAN WORK IT OUT...LET'S REMOVE OUR TROUSERS AND SNUGGLE AWHILE...NO WORDS...JUST CONNECTION...OKAY?🥲

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Can't tell if you're joking or not?

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not joking , why would i joke about something like this?

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Why do people tell lies ? I can't think of a single reason, so obviously everyone always tells the truth ! Especially on anonymous message boards !

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so he was a lazy drunk ?

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no , he was an engineer and engineering teacher

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Are you sure he wasn't a pagan sacrifice like you ?

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you are going on my ignore list asshole

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MY DAD'S BELT SPENT MORE TIME ON MY ASS THAN HIS...HE WAS NO DRINKER THOUGH...I WAS A KID WITH ADHD AND OCD AND IT WAS THE 80S...SO NO MEDICATION BUT PLENTY OF BELT...IT IS WHAT IT WAS...MY DAD IS CURRENTLY SMOKING HIS BONG AND WATCHING TELEVISION IN MY LIVING ROOM.

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so he's a lazy stoner

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HE IS AN ORIGINAL HIPPIE...HE WAS AT WOODSTOCK...HE PROTESTED NAM...HE BURNED HIS DRAFT CARD AND SPENT 20 YEARS WITH NO I.D. OR DRIVER'S LICENSE...SO...YEAH...HE'S A LAZY STONER.

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and he whoopd yo ass when ya needed it

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THAT HE DID.

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Was he at the Altamont concert in Dec 1969 when the hippies went crazy?

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I ASKED...HE MISSED ALTAMONT DUE TO THE FACT THAT HE WAS IN JAIL AT THE TIME... HONOR FARM/ROADWORK TYPE SITUATION.

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like a chain gang?

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PRETTY MUCH...HE DID WELL AND WAS TRUSTED ON THE HONOR FARM SO THEY TRANSFERRED HIM TO THE ACTUAL FARM PORTION...HE SPENT THE REST OF HIS TIME KILLING CHICKENS....HE SAYS HE HAS KILLED MILLIONS.

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Confirms my observation about the tree and apple.

My dad was a Veteran. He served a total of 22years in the Air Force & Army combined; served on military bases in various parts of the world, two tours in VietNam. He never spent a single day in jail. At his passing, it was on me to make sure he got 'full military honors', i.e., Colour Guard, 21-Gun Salute, the works...and I succeeded.

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YOUR DAD SOUNDS QUITE AWESOME...I RESPECT HIM A LOT...UNFORTUNATELY HIS SON GREW UP TO BE A BITTER OLD DOUCHEBAG...KNOCK IT OFF,BRO.

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Fuck you. I'm not your bro and I don't take orders from the likes of you.

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THERE WE GO!...KEEP ACTING LIKE THAT AND I MIGHT BE YOUR NEW BESTIE.🙂

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So, it's the "apple doesn't fall far from the tree" analogy? Boo-hoo. Guess it's supposed to explain a lot. (eye-roll)

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YOU ARE FAIRLY DENSE...ACTUALLY...I LOVE MY DAD...AND I PROBABLY DESERVED THE MAJORITY OF BELT I GOT...THAT MEDICINE I NEVER GOT...PROBABLY A GOOD THING...I AM NOT A PILL ZOMBIE...I GREW UP WITH ROUGH STRUCTURE...BUT STRUCTURE NONETHELESS...AND DISCOVERED HOW TO MEDICATE MYSELF WITH A NATURAL MEDICINE...I HAVE A 14 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND WE ARE BESTIES...I HAVE NEVER STRUCK HER OUT OF ANGER(SHE IS A BIG AND STRONG GIRL AND WE DO OUR SHARE OF ROUGH HOUSING)...BUT YOU KNOW...YOU'RE A DOUCHEBAG...SO WHAT ELSE IS NEW?😽

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I've been complimented on this site (and in real life by other friends) repeatedly by a very intelligent poster for being perceptive and good at reading people. That's what I know, and that you consistently fall back on a completely overused pejorative when you have nothing else to counter with. (eye-roll)

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LMAO...I ALMOST FELL OVER LAUGHING...YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN COMPLIMENTED...FOR ANYTHING...EVER...BY ANYONE.

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Sure, with your other, phony, overused claim here of, LMAO! (eye-roll)

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HEY...YOU WANT TO STOP BEING SO LAME AND BE FRIENDS?...I WOULD BE TOTALLY COOL WITH THAT.🍌

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That's a very lame and stupid attempt at extending an olive branch. There's nothing "cool" about you.

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I PUNCHED HITLER IN THE FACE ONCE...THAT WAS PRETTY COOL.

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Yeah, in the stoned-out, fantasy world you live in. (eye-roll)

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NO...I JUST REALLY ENJOY ZONE TROOPERS(1985)...AND ART LAFLEUR.

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My father didn’t stick around, so no.

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my father played the accordion which was punishment enough.

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No child deserves to be treated that way

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Harsh!

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it was an ongoing joke in our family.

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It could’ve been bagpipes.

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thankfully, they weren't around.

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This was genuinely funny. The rest of this thread is a little depressing

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