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If a former friend cuts tieS…


Would you remind them every now and then that you still care and that They ever change their minds you’re always available? That they’re not disposable or replaceable to you?

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I’d respect their decision and wouldn’t go out of my way to contact them. That said, I wouldn’t be childish if our paths crossed again, life’s too short for grudges or being hung up on the past.

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"...life's too short for grudges..."

Yet you couldn't resist taking a couple of opportunistic pot shots at me recently and then making a quick getaway.

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Incorrect. There was no “quick getaway”. In fact, I replied to your last comment in that thread but it couldn’t be posted because the OP deleted the thread.

However since you felt compelled to mention it, I was actually pointing out to someone that creating a thread about you is inviting trouble. Sure, I mentioned that you randomly attack people, but that was an observation based on truth. Because you do. Like right now having a go at me about a comment that was in no way directed at you. I did not, however take “pot shots” but rather tried to suggest in a lighthearted way that provoking you is perhaps not the smartest thing to do.

Really though, this victim act is getting old. Aren’t you supposedly a retiree? It’s curious that someone of your age would be so immature in your behaviour with strangers on a movie forum.

Let’s just stay out of each other’s way shall we? I’m not about to start a pointless and pathetic bickering war with you. Frankly I have better things to do.

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Like I said, you took a couple of opportunistic, sideways shots at me, made a quick exit and now want to cover your ass and try to lecture me about maturity. You stepped into it, can't handle the consequences, and are now desperately engaged in damage control.

"Poking the bear"..."random attacks"
Make up your mind about what the allegation is going to be. If I'm being compared to the bear that shouldn't be poked, then how can my attacks be considered as random?

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Oh my God. Ok db, spin it any way you want.

I don’t care about you or your neuroses. Is that clear enough for you? Find someone else to follow around like a puppy because I couldn’t be less interested. That’s not damage control, it’s pure boredom with your schtick.

This is the final reply you’ll get from me. Ever. So you’ll have to have your fun elsewhere I’m afraid. Good luck with it.

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You're the one spinning it and proving my assertion, that you can't handle me. I hope you mean the "ever" part, instigator.

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Living well is the best revenge. I think it's best to move on. You could send them a Christmas/holiday card each year and see if they reciprocate. I'd stop sending cards after a few years if you are not on their Christmas card list. You need to surround yourself with people who think YOU are not disposable or replaceable.

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Absolutely not. Doing so is disrespectful and shows that you're not actually thinking about them, you're thinking about yourself and how your life was made better by them, not how you made theirs better (because they clearly didn't think you did and still don't if they're not contacting you).

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Sound advice 👏

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Thanks.

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No. Just move on.

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Like stalking?

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How do you feel they abandoned you? What happened?

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Well, a few years back when someone blocked me I used to make a new account to try and get them to come back. The reason was often because of that bad habit I used to have

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Blow them off the same way they did to you. Otherwise you will look pathetic. Especially if they are an ex romantic interest.

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Kill 'Em All

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