I found at work or just life in general I've come across people who haven't liked me, even though I did nothing to them,it's frustrating especially how I'm polite and did nothing to them, anyone else have experiences like this?
shareYes - it's just a fact of life.
shareyes. i've got a lot of problems that make me really hard to be around, and i definitely provoke a lot of hostility and contempt from people.
although i guess that's a reason to hate me!
They hate because I'm beautiful. Society is so spiteful of my beauty that they made the concept of beautiful the exact opposite of what I look like.
Hateful fuckers.
Yes. I think there is a thing in life where contention exists for no reason what so ever.
Ever just look at someone's face and dispise them without knowing them? As if you know they are a criminal or something? It probably a primal defense thing but I've never looked into it. In the past we'd probably steer clear of them or kill them, but now days that is less of an option. There are probably some studies that talk about it. Goes along side that standing bitch face issue.
We make judgement all the time. I often get judged because I have a "poker face" some people take that as a scowl or that I am unhappy/don't want to be approached. I don't want to be approached but I am only unhappy when people try and talk crap to me.
I think sometimes we see someone's face and they remind us of a bad experience or someone who has wronged us or someone else and we just draw perhaps unfair comparisons.
A lot of people think attractive people are "Good People" just based on them being attractive, makes you realize why some get murdered by serial killers or duped in romance swindles!
Meanwhile, ugly people have to be nasty types, right?!
all true, whether we like it or not.
there could be something much deeper going on... things science hasn't classified yet.
I know I clash with other Alphas in a room even before I have truly identified them as such, its just a feeling. I'm more mature about that now, but I know other alphas feel the same way sometimes.
then there is the whole pheromone/dna design attract and repel stuff. pretty cool what goes on deeply behind our "Id"
Yes. But very occasionally there are people I don't like on sight either - it's just the way it is and all you can do is be reasonably polite about it all.
shareIt even happens in Star Wars: -
https://youtu.be/yVKySA2-47c
Yes- nobody is everybody´s darling (or something like that)
shareYes. It's a fact of life that not everyone is everyone else's cup of tea, not everyone likes everyone else.
That said, it's also true that if people dislike me it's not necessarily for no reason, a lot of the time it's because I've done something that didn't go down big, and I have no idea what.