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Can you tell what someone is like just by looking at them?


Whether they are good, bad, guilty, not, nice, intelligent, dumb etc etc, just by looking at their faces or facial expressions or face in general? Cheers.

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No.

Nobody can. Anyone who says they can is an idiot or a liar.

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Also, say if you were to look into faces of politicians, can you REALLY determine factors in them that makes you think - oh he is terrible or he is not that bad?

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Isn't that the same question, slightly rephrased? The answer is still: no. You cannot know a person's character from just looking at their face.

Some people think they can, and they might even claim loudly that they're very good with first impressions - 'a good judge of character' - because they remember the times they got it right and forget the times they got it wrong. It's standard issue confirmation bias.

But nobody has this skill. It isn't a skill that is available to human beings.

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But then I often hear people say stuff - He looks like a psychopath, he looks like a serial killer, he looks like a [insert appropriate adjective or noun etc] and how true is that?

How about the face of that individual etc makes me puke? Or he looks like a smug etc guilty folk?

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OK. Someone says 'He looks like a serial killer.'

What do you think the chances of them being correct are?

So vanishingly small it's not even worth thinking about. Unless, of course, you mean someone watching a person on TV who has been charged with multiple murders: 'Well, he looks like a serial killer!' In which case the chances of being right are probably much higher than they would be for random people you pass in the street.

Point is: we require much more information than just a face, or a facial expression to make accurate assessments of people. And even with much more information, we often still get these things wrong.

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Agreed. For this reason I tend to greet all new people in the same way and go from there because there’s no way of knowing.

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I agree of course that few if any person has "psychopath" or "something bad" like that written on their forehead but then again, I look at some people and think - THAT person could not do anything BAD etc.

And if its a pretty young girl or woman, could you tell just by looking at her for instance, that SHE may be capable of malicious harm of any kind? Maybe not.

Or...?

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I was going to admit my superpower here and now but you hurt my feelings.

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I must confess that I forgot about superpowers. I should go back and edit. 'Nobody can (except for people with superpowers).'

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Rarely. Most people are smart enough to present a civilized front, which keep anyone from immediately sussing out their bad qualities.

But in some cases the tells are obvious, like if a person is carrying a huge pile of science books then you might deduce that they're smart and educated. Or if a person is wearing a MAGA had, you can infer that they're stupid, belligerent, and probably carrying the plague.

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lol

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I'd say no ..... but sometimes you get a feeling that someone just isn't quite right. I think that's an instinct you should trust.

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This scene has always spoken volumes about eye contact, the once-over and reading someone: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9c4hCJZhx8

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Why the hell for instance then did some or other people say on an IMDb message board that Gaspar Noe looks like a r*pist from a photograph he had on IMDb, do THOSE individuals even HAVE certain looks as compared to those who are NOT them? Or even p*doph*le or ch*ld m*lest*r? (Yeah, you can say/type these words, but its easier on my consciousness if I type them?)

Absolutely NO OFFENSE to Noe for instance, this was back LONG TIME ago, but BESIDES the fact that such a statement can be insulting AND downright wrong, how and where do people even get such ideas that certain individuals can be someone or can look like someone when more often than not, they really just LOOK like EVERYONE ELSE?

Or are people often just being nonsensical and meaningless for their own sake?

P.S. What even IS the obsession for various aspects, not often tied to reality however real it is, where people fixate on someone or something and equate it to sexual offenses? Someone wrote for U2 that their music appeals to p*doph*les, for Christ sakes, why IS that, what, if ever, exists in particles, air, universe, someone's mind etc for them to arrive like that on such conclusions or "conclusions", seriously????!!

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Post a picture of yourself and let us guess. Then you can tell us if we are correct.

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Would a video do? Here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVdInghs_lU Haha, and sorry for the REPETITION, then again, its arguably my ONLY ever public and YouTube video, lol.

I also have Facebook.

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Yes, you can if you are trained to read faces in certain contexts. If someone knows they're being monitored, they can put on a front and try to deceive you.

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No, nobody really can outside of that 'mind reader' mumbo jumbo

I'd have to speak casually with them to get some general idea, most people show their true colors when at ease, out of the office and so on

Still, there are the types that are completely expert at hiding themselves behind a load of malarkey and keeping up a farce
These are the types that are out to swindle a company or hurt someone...really dangerous sharks

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