Like there’s a certain someone you really wanna be around, you really like her a lot and wanna be around her, even if she’s out of your league, so you just wanna be friends with her so you can be in her life in any kind of way?
shareFirstly, kinda setting yourself up to be a doormat. You might not see it like that, but you can bet her friends would.
Secondly, she might start a romantic relationship with someone else. Do you really want to be hanging around her when that happens? Because if you like her as much as it sounds, that would be gut-punch hard.
Sounds like a road to heartbreak.
Or is this all 'hypothetical'? 😊
Not really. Because even if we’re friends I don’t have to do everything for her, or act like a lovesick puppy like an actual brown-nosed doormat would. And even if she starts a romantic relationship with someone else, at least she’ll be happy. That’s the most important thing.
shareJUST TELL TCRUM HOW YOU FEEL.
shareWho's above you?
Do Not be a slave to women..many of them are worthless
Don't be a weakling...NO Woman I've ever known liked a weak chump fellow
The Ladies like a fellow that carries the groceries in, murders spiders and mice in the home, checks the door locks at night and has firearms close to the bed
What does that have to do with being a weakling?
shareRead your own OP dummy, that was some sad, pathetic shit
That stuff was crybaby
Act like a man
Trying to be friends with a woman you like a lot?
shareThis crush of your's will use you for a ride to the airport, a $1,000 loan and a place to 'crash' after she's gotten into a fight with her her current dick...Don't be a dummy
The whole world has got a sharp knife and it's hovering over our necks....Let's not give it any help
Good advice 👆
shareEvery night, door and window locks tight, firearms right there and yard lights on
Attack dog ready?
shareWe just got a Dog...She's a 19
pound nerd...I think we'd wind up protecting this little goofball
Sounds like a lover not a fighter. 😀
shareShe's a little sweetie🐕🦺I love this critter...
But I'm just macho-stupid enough not to admit it to the wife and kids LOL
*I still call it 'Daggy'
I did not want a dog, too much work but the family voted me down:/
Now the little beast sits with me for movie nights lol
If she's single, go for it. Maybe she'll start to become attracted to that OhJason charm.
shareWell you see, it’s an older divorced model with a son who I talked to on Instagram. I really wanted to get close to her, in any way I can. Too bad she hid her stories from me for some reason but I just wanna let her know if she changes her mind I’m always here.
shareAn "instagram model"???
If she's calling herself an instagram model, she's not looking for a relationship, she's looking for money.
Don't act like a friend, if your goal is to be something other than a friend.
You can't build a romantic relationship on dishonesty. And if you fake being a friend, after a while you will probably start to resent her for treating you like the friend you pretended to be.
Well you see, I really like this model lady and I wanna get to know her but she doesn’t seem interested so I wanna let her know if she ever wants to be friends I’m always here
shareShe's heard that one before, hon.
And look, if she's not interested then there's no magic button to push that will make her interested. Find someone else to be interested in, someone who doesn't make you want to do things that will only make you unhappy, because, yes. Pretending to be her friend will only cause you pain.
No, I really only like people who like me. Anyone who doesn’t like me must be some form of an a/hole and I am happy to keep my distance from them.
share"even if she’s out of your league"
There's no such thing.
What is it, about an older, divorced, single mother, "Instagram model" that makes you want to be around her and "be in her life in any kind of way"? She sounds like a nightmare and I'm sorry but that IS some pathetic shiz.
shareWell you see, remember those models I posted? This was her https://justseventeen.tumblr.com/image/170296552314
I found her by complete accident on a 90s nostalgia page where a modeling pic of her as a teenager was posted. She was actually pretty cool.