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So last night I’m at the bar and I run into this chick I recently met

posted 5 years ago by MovieBuff224 (5053)
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She was the leasing agent at an apartment complex I looked at. I walked by her apparently and didn’t recognize her and while my friend and I were standing at the bar she spun around in her chair and said with a smile “do you remember me?” It took me a minute but then I did, we chatted briefly then she gave me a hug when she left. She was acting VERY interested, my friend even said something like dude she wants your nuts. So I go to add her on Instagram today and she denies it. Wtf??!

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

Tease. Or feeling the alcohol and thought she embarrassed herself. Maybe she decided YOU didn't show enough interest. Or any of a hundred other reasons or NO reason, honestly who the fuck knows, I stopped trying to figure out women decades ago. I recommend that you do the same.

[–] MovieBuff224 (5053) 5 years ago

Cheers to that

[–] Forky (1739) 5 years ago

Yeah, the alcohol loosened her up, the next day she chickened out.

[–] mikethemartian (6990) 5 years ago

I gave up trying to ever make an effort with women. Now I just take the easiest path.

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

I worked out that women aren't meant to be understood. All the bullshit they say and do is just a massive shit test they put men through. Trouble (for them) is more and more men are waking up and have no time for them now.

[–] AndyKing1967 (39764) 5 years ago

Maybe you could have asked for her contact details at the bar. Yes, a bit late now and she may have shot you down in flames there and then, who knows?

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

I agree as I mentioned in my other post there is a very narrow window of opportunity when it comes to women and if you miss it, there is usually no going back.

[–] AndyKing1967 (39764) 5 years ago

Hindsight is a beautiful thing.

[–] TalkinPikchorBox (2250) 5 years ago

She hooked up with someone else or she’s sober now and remembers what you look like.

[–] Mrmojo4700 (21706) 5 years ago

If your going out then stop worrying about trying picking up women. That’s when your wildest dreams will come true. :)

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78491) 5 years ago

The nice girls are at church
Go to church!

[–] actionkamen (23176) 5 years ago

The preacher's daughters are teh best!

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78491) 5 years ago

I wouldn't know
The only Preacher's daughter I ever asked out shot me down in spectacular fashion in front of my 12th grade typing class because her daddy did not like 'white boys' LOL

She looked like Whitney Houston, she was so sweet and she was my class partner and boy was I smitten...
She sure did make a fool out of me!
Even the teacher laughed when she swatted me off

High School was kind of shitty now that I think about it:/

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

Didn't like high school. All those pretenders had their little groups and were convinced that's what the real world was about.
Well nuts to them! They got a big fat kick in the teeth. I loved every second of it.

Everyone who says " Oh, revenge is bad, you should forgive people!" is a clueless glutton for punishment.

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78491) 5 years ago

It is pretty amazing to see what became of 'The Cool Kids'
So many of them wound up in jail, cheating on the wife, bad parents, dead or divorced and broke...there was at least one suicide as well and that was a big tragedy

After all is said and done I'm happy to say I was not one of 'The Cool Kids'

Nerdy Outcasts for the Win👍

[–] actionkamen (23176) 5 years ago

Wow, that's racist.

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78491) 5 years ago

The city of Yonkers, New York was a hotbed of racial unease and even violence in 1990 so I can read the other side of the coin too...it was not the right time for a big, dummy white boy in an Iron Maiden tee shirt to go asking out the beautiful daughter of an angry black preacher...stupid me!

The typing class teacher, an old black lady, even clapped her hands and said (and I'll never forget this!) 'You are ONE crazy white boy!'😂
Man, they all laughed at me that day!

One of my biggest beat downs ever!

[–] AndyKing1967 (39764) 5 years ago

Not at all mate! I have total respect that you had the cahonas to go for it. How many guys whine about not having the guts to ask a girl out at some point in their lives?

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78491) 5 years ago

Well thanks for that partner!
I've got all the balls but I'm nothing much to look at LOL!

[–] AndyKing1967 (39764) 5 years ago

Faint heart never won fair lady (according to Shakespeare).

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78491) 5 years ago

Old Billy knew what he was talking about!

Here's one for the ugly maties that could chat up the pretty ladies🥃🥃

[–] AndyKing1967 (39764) 5 years ago

IMHO ladies like guys with a sense of humour and a witty intelligence.

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78491) 5 years ago

The only way for an ogre like me to get lucky 😉!

[–] croft_alice (12180) 5 years ago

The hell is with you and churches all of the sudden?

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78491) 5 years ago

It's not 'all of a sudden' Croft, this has been my line for a while now

I happen to think that 'church' (or temple, mosque or whatever) is a fine place to find oneself...I think religious gatherings are useful and they can prop up the community...many of these religious folks do good works and help the needy and so on

I have less spirit than most but I have volunteered a lot of times and it is a good feeling👍

[–] croft_alice (12180) 5 years ago

Good to hear you're feel good by volunteering, but this can come with double edges

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78491) 5 years ago

Of course
Even amongst the well meaning and devout I feel a bit alone and oddly outside of it all

I find the Christian types to be very inspiring though

They show real love for the neighborhood
I get a lot of happiness by witnessing it and I try to help out, even if I'm mostly faking it

[–] SoCrates (876) 5 years ago

Give it up for my band!

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

you choked and missed the opportunity.

[–] MovieBuff224 (5053) 5 years ago

I don’t think so, and if she really just wanted to fuck last night and is not interested in me now then it was drunk horniness but it wasn’t because she was pretty sober

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

is she attractive?

[–] MovieBuff224 (5053) 5 years ago

Yeah

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

damn

[–] MovieBuff224 (5053) 5 years ago

I don’t see why it is over, if she’s attracted to me she’s attracted to me.

[–] Stratego (31059) 5 years ago

To be honest, MB, it doesn't even mean she's really attracted to you. It could be she was just looking for a little attention because she wasn't getting enough of it.

[–] MovieBuff224 (5053) 5 years ago

Of course, but that’s not how it looked or felt

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

It never does, man.
Little head sees with some big ass blinders on.

[–] MovieBuff224 (5053) 5 years ago

I think girls clearly just have highly inflated opinions of themselves.

[–] chilone (18291) 5 years ago

W3rD!

[–] MovieBuff224 (5053) 5 years ago

Any single guy knows this

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

If they do, it's our fault.

[–] chilone (18291) 5 years ago

Yep. That's the difference between men and women. Men break the code all the time, to get pussy. Women would suffer eternal damnation before giving us their secrets.

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

Drunk courage, morning after remorse.

[–] ShogunofYonkers (78491) 5 years ago

Seems likely
So happy to not be single...

Dating was really difficult very often

[–] MovieBuff224 (5053) 5 years ago

For sure

[–] [deleted] 5 years ago

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