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This girl I work with is a lesbian and married


To a woman. I’m 36 and she’s 30. She’s very attractive, very feminine and I can’t help but notice some sexual tension between us. I don’t flirt at all for obvious reasons in the world we live in today but I’m wondering if she’s really even gay or just had a really bad experience with an abusive guy?

She has not made her sexuality or marriage to a woman public, but most of the people at work know by now. I do not want to make a move or anything because she’s married, but I am very curious to know if she’s really gay.

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Getting involved with someone where you work is usually a bad idea... things can easily go wrong and then you're stuck having to work with them, not to mention all the assumptions your co-workers will make about what's going on and what favoritism may be happening...

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Plow her.

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bang her

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Maybe she thought she was a lesbian her whole life, until she met you! Make a move bro. Why would an attractive girl like that be a lesbian when she could be with a guy like you?! Keep us posted on how it works out.

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So what??? Why do you care if she is a married lesbian?? Her private life is none of your business, it's private.

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I've had many lesbian women flirt with me. In my opinion very few of them are true believers. When a woman becomes a lesbian, they see themselves as off the market for men, and this actually uninhibits them a great deal, and in my experience, they flirt with dudes more than ever. I'm not talking about the hard core butchs and angry feminists, obviously. I have two female friends in my life, both who were lesbians for many years, and they both just one day up and dropped it and married a dude almost immediately. And they both gave the same reason. They couldn't take the drama. Straight up told me bitches be crazy and two crazy bitches under one roof was too much drama. One of em spit out some kids and became the family type and made me swear to never tell her man of her history.

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I've had the same thing. It's weird and I could never really explain it. I found out that a girl I was casually meeting up with from time to time identified as a lesbian (specifically a Lesbian, not bisexual) but she still calls and acts pretty straight at times. She seems to be fascinated by Male reproductive organs despite the fact that she is openly telling people that she is a lesbian/gay.

I was always confused about that but your post atleast explains some of it, if its applicable in this case.

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Ok, I’ve given this a great deal of thought and I absolutely, 100% think you should just go straight up to her and suggest a threesome with her wife. Please let us know how that pans out.

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Haha

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With pics if poss, lol.

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She could just be bi-sexual. She's married so it's best to be respectful and not make a move. Or, do what the person above suggests lol.

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