This girl I work with is a lesbian and married
To a woman. I’m 36 and she’s 30. She’s very attractive, very feminine and I can’t help but notice some sexual tension between us. I don’t flirt at all for obvious reasons in the world we live in today but I’m wondering if she’s really even gay or just had a really bad experience with an abusive guy?
She has not made her sexuality or marriage to a woman public, but most of the people at work know by now. I do not want to make a move or anything because she’s married, but I am very curious to know if she’s really gay.