Let’s open up a bit.

And I once administered oral sex in the alley behind a club where we had just met.

Well, if it is brutally done ,then yes, if humanely done , and for the purposes of a set of humans' survival , then no.

Not officially I'm afraid, more like someone who is occasionally curious in it, sad to say.

I was the only one there who was at peace with how gay it all was.

Minneapolis for me. Was great. Had to have been about 99 or 2000. My friend's mom tricked me into going to church after I slept over that night and I wasn't appreciative. She spent about a decade trying to save me.

It's probably for the best. You're not missing much with either one. Pot can be great in the short term, but it so easily becomes a habitual and a major burden.