Young people like to use derogatory terms against old people as well. When I was young we heard geezer, oldster, and other terms.
They do, as part of being independent, usually are quite full of themselves after reading some books, think they understand the world. That is part of being young.
That is also why the efforts we put into passing our life experience to them are mostly in vain.
But if we are smart, if we want them to listen, we better treat them as equals, as much as possible.
I am a very arrogant person, I can't stress that enough. And I have a teenage nephew, who is quite smart. I treat him as a friend as much as I could, take every question of him very seriously, give him my prospective. As a result I think he listens to me, and talks to me about things from time to time.
They are kids, but we are not.
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