I have to agree that bullying (cyber or not) is a serious problem that doesn't just go away. I was bullied in High School to the point I ended up having to Go for my High School Equivalency Diploma through Blackhawk Tech. rather than finishing in regular High School. There were three main reasons for someone being bullied in the school I went to: 1) not having the right name (i.e. your family hadn't lived in the town for at least 3 generations), 2) Not having the money to dress in the highest fashions that kids were wearing and 3) having any physical or other type of handicap. Since my family had moved there, we were poor and I had some (mostly physical) handicaps I had three strikes against me. One time an upper classman sprayed me in the face with a can of hair spray (I had to have one of my eyes flushed out afterward) and the principal let him get away with it. His family had the right name. Later when I had further problems and got into it with another student the principal asked why I hadn't come to him. I pointed out he hadn't done anything in regard to the hairspray incident, and he looked at me and told me he couldn't fight all my battles for me. I could have been blinded, but he didn't care. Later he became school superintendent. To this day I have no love for Brodhead Wisconsin as a result of the school's lack of action against the bullying. According to them it was all my fault because I didn't walk right, talk right or wear the right clothes. As I have some motor skill deficiencies as well as speech impediment and was from a poor home I couldn't very well do anything about it. In fact two of the three things are beyond any ability to change. If you are bullied long enough it is very hard to see any way to fight back especially when the adults around you are unwilling to do anything to correct the situation. In the end I refused to let them break me but I know of at least one family where one of the kids had planned to commit suicide. Someone caught on in time (as far as I know) but there is a fine line between kidding around and outright hateful bullying that can lead to tragedy.
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