Ending Was Terrible


I really liked this movie until the ending. Nadine's apology to her brother was was too convenient, the text message from the mom rang false, and the movie ground to a halt when she went to see Erwin's movie. Worst of all was the last scene where she made all the new friends with Erwin. I really wanted this movie to continue to break typically Hollywood conventions like it was doing throughout the movie, but the ending was really drawn out and "made for TV movie" predictable.

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Maybe the last part where is goes to the film festival, but I personally would not have liked the movie if she had not grown to see that her brother was really a good person, and ultimately the strongest part of her little family. Many people just would rather things remain strained for the sake of a non Hollywood ending.

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Yes it was a terrible cliche unoriginal movie

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I agree about the ending. I feel like it was too convenient for her to suddenly be okay with everything again. She never even got to express to her brother and her best friend why their relationship hurt her so much. I was waiting for that reveal. But it just was tied up neatly at the end.

I am glad she realized what a good guy Erwin was though because that boy was a catch!

Self-Respect and a hymen are better than friends and fun. Love, Mom-Amy, The Big Bang Theory

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I didn't think the ending was mindblowing but I definitely liked it...

Firstly, to say this broke typical Hollywood conventions before the ending is kind of silly imo because this was pretty heavy on the cliches - the unconventional teacher, the good guy the girl just doesnt realise is 'the one', the hot guy who turns out to be a douche and only want sex etc. etc.

Secondly, the ending could've been a LOT more cliche'd - i like that the teacher didn't come out with some profound advice and become Nadine's father figure as so many cliche films do, as that would've broken character, nor was the last scene Nadine&Erwin kissing in a romantic shot etc., as far as we the viewers know they may never even start a relationship, all we know at that last shot is she appreciated him.

To me it was a ridiculously realistic ending. It was teenage life reaching its worst peak (the start & middle) before eventually starting to fade and just become life that isn't actually so bad once you look around and see everything & not just your pessimistic view.

Though I have to disagree with a lot of comments calling Nadine nothing but self-centred, she was a teenage girl with a *beep* up mum and a dead dad.... As someone who was once a teenage girl with a very *beep* up friend and dead relatives I can 100% relate and 100% sympathise with the poor girl - to her she felt like everything in the whole world was against her and nobody gave a *beep* Although that wasn't true it sure didn't feel like that to her.

But that ending is kind of how teenage life ended for me and I think a fair few others - I accepted my responsibilities for making people feel *beep* and learnt to apologise when I did so, my Mum became more understanding and learnt that avoiding arguments was better than having a war (you dont just stop maturing at 25, people keep going at 50), and I tried to look on the brighter side of life. No, life is nowhere near perfect now, but there was definitely a turning point and I think that's all the ending showed in a simple way - a turning point in Nadine's life as she starts moving towards being an adult.

Anyway everyone is entitled to their opinions but those are mine - brilliant film and good ending.

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I agree. It even had that thing that movies do as people start to go away but turn back to say one last thing. South Park made fun of those types of exchanges in Kenny Dies as you can see in the link below.

https://youtu.be/dkUXHlC4sko?t=1m23s

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Agreed, didn't really like most of the second half actually.

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I think the ending was fine. The movie moves fast the whole time, so there isn't any slow parts where a scene would drag out like 10 minutes.

Yes, Nadine didn't apologize to her mom in person. But obviously it was her intention when she came home and saw her sleeping. And the scene where Erwin pulls her towards his friends, nothing wrong with her acting there. She was suppose to be a bit awkward still, since this is her first time being introduce by a larger group of friends.

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My thoughts exactly. It was like they put a shiny sign on the whole thing that said "if you don't wanna feel like sh!t then alter yourself to become convenient for others". That was a rather ugly and definitely oversimplified way to solve all that tangle of adolescence's issues Nadine was an embodiment of.

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So Nadine character was just suppose to remain ignorant about how her attitude was hurting others, not just herself?

Her Brother speech opened up a whole new mind set for Nadine. It made her realize that Darian was not some kind of perfect god, but just a normal person.

Just like her best friend Krista wasn't an angel, but someone that could have serious flaws, just like she did.

There are only three ways Nadine could have reacted to these events. 1st would have been to ignore them, continue to focus only on her problems and screw the rest of the world.

2nd the movie ending where Nadine tries to change how she reacts to others. Stumbling still, making mistakes, but slowly moving forward. And it was slowly; to those who think that Nadine was still moving too fast. Let me explain.

Nadine doesn't really say much to her brother or her best friend at breakfast. There reaction might seem overly positive, but remember that both Darian and Krista love Nadine. Darian can't get close to his sister, but still cares a lot about both her and his mom. Krista reaction is also understandable, yeah Nadine reaction might stir up some bad blood, but they been close friends since grade school.

The movie convention didn't really go too far either. Nadine still misunderstands Erwin and kind of hangs back when his friends show up to congratulate him. She doesn't start any kind of amazing conversation, as everyone really like the film Erwin made. Nadine just listen to what Erwin and his friends are talking about and the movie ends.

3rd Not understanding and going through with her terrible suicide idea.

I liked ending 2. I really don't get how anyone would prefer for Nadine to go back to her own self center world. Where she can't understand or relate to other people or possibly taking her own life because she feels like she'll never belong.

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