Ending Was Terrible


I really liked this movie until the ending. Nadine's apology to her brother was was too convenient, the text message from the mom rang false, and the movie ground to a halt when she went to see Erwin's movie. Worst of all was the last scene where she made all the new friends with Erwin. I really wanted this movie to continue to break typically Hollywood conventions like it was doing throughout the movie, but the ending was really drawn out and "made for TV movie" predictable.

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I kind of agree. I still really liked the film as a whole but wasn't expecting a typical Hollywood ending where all is resolved.

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No its not. Go watch romeo & juliet or west side story

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The ending could've been better written.

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I just wanted to say that, as cute as that ending might've been, I've had to struggle with the same issues as Nadine, and I'm still doing so in my mid-40s, despite years of therapy and minus any of the "happily ever after" moments. I have certainly come to realize over time, being the fan of film that I am, that life is definitely not a Hollywood movie.

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I couldn't disagree with you more. And I'm someone who's always complaining about too-predictable story beats and endings that are too neat and positive. St. Vincent, for example, but I could give you twenty others.

You seemed to have missed the point of the scene where Darian tells Nadine that Krista is basically the only thing that makes his life tolerable, and that he knows it's "destroying" Nadine. Nadine realizes he's not as self-centered as she thinks he is, and she gets the irony that she's being the self-centered one. (Nadine confuses self-confidence with self-absorption, when she's the living proof that the two have nothing to do with one another.) Her apology to him follows from those insights.

I don't know whether you're complaining that her mom checked up on her after she got up at a ridiculous early hour on a Saturday and left the house nicely dressed, or that she ultimately accepted Nadine's text "I'm safe." Both of those rang perfectly true to me. The checking on her is almost a reflex; when she thinks it through she finds Nadine's reply reasonable. What's your argument that it rings false? Nadine's is behaving completely unlike herself; of course her Mom's going to check on her without thinking it through. And yet when she does think it through, there's obviously nothing to be concerned about. And we get to see the process by which she has to force her feelings to match her understanding.

You don't seem to get that Erwin's film was a fantasy of winning her over and then blowing her off as punishment for her having toyed with him. And that he succeeded in making the same point by denying to her that this was the case, as if to say, no, I had a much bigger crush on some other girl, and you were typically oblivious of it. He gets to make the point he wanted to make, about her self-absorption, without actually rejecting her. I thought that was brilliant.

And then, as The_ROUSes has pointed out, Erwin introduces her to his friends, and she says hi. That's all. Sure, it's implied that she will become part of their circle of friends, but of course it's also implied that it won't be easy for her.

Movie endings ring false when the hero or heroine does something out of character, when they make too much progress towards getting their act together, too quickly, without it having been earned. I mean, really -- in the moment precisely preceding the mildly happy ending, she is taken down a huge peg by the guy she's beginning to truly learn to like. The movie ends with a natural, small step in the direction of getting it together (much like Sideways, Up in the Air, Greenberg, and a bunch of other films, with the obvious difference being that Nadine's problems are typical for a teenager, while the characters in those films are all seriously messed up adults.)

Prepare your minds for a new scale of physical, scientific values, gentlemen.

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So, to all of the complainers, how would you have it ended? Would you have her commit suicide so it wouldn't be a "typical Hollywood Ending"?
I liked the ending. It showed hope and maturity for her and her mom. All through the movie, Nadine acted like a self absorbed girl a few years younger than her 17 years.

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I want to know also. How would they have liked it to end? Her being completely alone crying in her room?

Would I rather be feared or loved? Easy, both. I want people to be afraid of how much they love me.

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I agree to an extent. Yes there was alot of set up, which helped add to the happy ending but I think the main things were, and I think this is what you meant, were:
A. Everything happened all at once so it felt slightly less believable which is because
B. There was no bridging scene, there was nothing relating us to what she and her mom went through to get to the decisions they made.
and because of this
C. When Nadine woke up it felt like weeks had passed and everything had changed. They were trying to give an impression of baby steps but considering what happened the night before it felt like leaps and bounds.

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My main problem with the ending of the film was the resolution between Krista, Darian and Nadine. Nadine apologised to Darian for her behaviour and then suddenly everything was okay, everyone was all cheery the next morning. BUT he never really apologised to her and neither did Krista. Krista was Nadine's ONLY friend. Of course Nadine felt like crap once Krista had hooked up with her brother and basically ditched her (made worse because Krista couldn't get on with other people). Nadine definitely overreacted, but I understand her reaction. I've had close friends who've found a boyfriend and then demoted me to a forgotten third wheel. It hurts. Even worse when her best friend hooked up with her perfect brother, the favourite of her mother. It just would have been nice for Krista and Darian to acknowledge that and apologise. I found it very hard to believe that Nadine forgave them and moved on when this really hadn't been resolved.

And just generally, I thought Krista's character was under-developed.

I loved most of this movie, but yeah, the ending didn't work for me (for reasons mentioned by other people in this thread too).

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Nadine's apology to her brother was was too convenient
I thought that was fine.
the text message from the mom rang false
No, Nadine sent her mother a grown up message, which was unexpected by her mother. Her mother respected that in the end. That is the only part of the ending I felt true about.
Worst of all was the last scene where she made all the new friends with Erwin.
I thought that was more of a cliche, but to think of it I am happy for her. In the end we want to make friends with people respect us.

A cynic is what an idealist calls a realist - Sir Humphrey Appleby

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