Several possible motivations (and it probably wasn't just one:-) have already been mentioned. Yet another is control!
That's a good point. It fits with the theme of the seemingly paradoxical adaptive benefit of depression.
Life sucks. To cope, "normal" people have to maintain a state of denial and the
illusion of control. Those who seem the most together and in control may well be more out of touch with reality than those who might be labeled pathologically depressed or those with pessimistic outlooks.
Denial is an extremely powerful and adaptive coping mechanism. John probably never objectively considered the available information because of simple confirmation bias. Also, in many cases, large groups of people will likely be in denial of the same things, such as the likelihood of extinction, so, they all reality test with others who are out of touch with reality the same way that they are, and become overconfident in their distorted perspectives.
Normal folks can have serious crises when reality becomes overwhelming and their denial can't be maintained. When John could no longer deny the facts, he could no longer live. When he knew the worst was going to happen and he could do nothing about it, he had to quit living because he had no other way to cope - no magic tent.
Depressed people tend to reality test better than "normal" people which is not adaptive to day-to-day life, but seems to be quite adaptive when the inevitable horrific thing actually happens. The depressive's life is a daily rehearsal of the worst of life's experiences. They know that everything that most people deny to get by every day is not real - just a magic tent that is no more real than Santa Claus or the Easter Bunny. Depressives maintain control of the magic tent, because they know that it is magic. Those who can no longer pretend that their cavernous magic tent is real, have no tent at all.
Are they slow? Yeah, they're dead. They're all messed up.
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