So we're misogynistic? Is that so? As soon as I served solicitors papers on my ex because she refused to divide the proceeds of the house in a deal SHE agreed to, I suddenly became a bad father overnight. I've currently seen my son on just three occasions since September, my solicitor, a female, calls her a 'hostile parent', she wrote my boss and told him that in "16 years she is the most hostile and aggressive person she has ever had to deal with"
She sent a letter to my solicitor on the 18th December saying that I could take our son, as was my turn, to my family home for Christmas. On the 21st, I went to his school to pick him up, but he wasn't there. So I called the cops. We went to her house, but got no answer. So I went home without my son. My folks, his grandparents, haven't seen him for the best part of a year. When I got home on 2nd January, I found out she's filed a report with police to say that back in 2011 I assaulted her. I was arrested and bailed. Trouble is, I'd already been to the cops back in October telling them she was gonna do something like this, but nobody wanted to talk to me then. So when I was in interview, I told them that all this arrest garbage was just that. It was a smokescreen cos I'm taking her to children's court later this month just so i can see my son. The cops ask me if I want to make any allegations against her. I said that they had to be kidding. Who gets affected by all of this? My six year old boy, who I have no idea when I'll see again. So I'm suspended from work because I got arrested and I was only arrested so I could be bailed and the bail conditions are what I'm currently paying my solicitor $1500 a month to do. She gets to pull all the strings and I have to dance for her. Yet I'm "misogynistic"?
I saw what happened in the movie and it almost made me bawl. Accusations of things that you simply didn't do and forced from your kids. Their mom had to believe it. My ex does it out of spite and I wasn't the one sleeping around.
You might want to read up on 'hostile parents'. "Misogynistic"? It's predominantly women who are the hostile parents, and I'm not the first it happened to. Misogynistic is just a word that some women use when spite and venom can't cut it any more and the fellas don't give women the reaction they're being pressed for. It's just a change of tactic. You hear that word out of a woman's mouth fellas, get OUT! Remember where you heard it first.
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