The story sprang from Sofia's experience with an aging actor when she was young.
Sofia offers potent insights on the nature of romantic love. For one, love transcends age (Bob is 35 years older than Charlotte). For another, it's possible to be married and experience romantic love for another. Not that this justifies adultery. Note how comfortable Bob and Charlotte are with each other, how they look into each other's eyes, the windows of the soul. This can happen in the flash of a moment where the two people just KNOW, or it can take place over a period of time, as is the case with Bob and Charlotte (a handful of days). They see the same things and speak the same language, and I don't mean English. But this presents a conundrum for Bob. Bob COULD take advantage of Charlotte because she's so lonely in a sea of people; she's also inexperienced and vulnerable. Will he or won't he take advantage?
If Bob loves Charlotte so much, not to mention his wife, why does he have a one-night stand? Bob slept with the singer to release sexual tension that had been building up between him & Charlotte. This was a moral failure, but keep in mind he was drunk (another failure, but he was going thru a mid-life crisis).
Bob could've taken advantage of Charlotte but doesn't because he genuinely loved her, which is revealed at the end. He makes with the singer because he didn't love her (not that it justifies his actions). Simply put, true love transcends sexual expression and sexual union does not equal love.
The ending is powerful and tear-inducing. No CGI, explosion or action stunt can compare. It's just an older man and a too-young woman embracing in the midst of 20 million strangers. Tears flow, kisses are given and unheard words are whispered. They could never be a couple, even if they weren't married, and they know they'll never see each other again, at least on this physical plane, but their love has been expressed and will be treasured for eternity.
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