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Sex scenes... graphic or no?


I'm a gay man so don't attack me with the "IF IT WERE A STRAIGHT COUPLE U WOULDN'T BE POSTING THIS"; however, I've heard people tell me that the sex scenes in this show are tame, and even more tame in comparison to the British version, and it confuses the hell out of me. People have posted similar sentiments on the internet. I've watched a couple episodes of the British series and the sex scenes come across as much less graphic. When I was a teenager (pre-coming out and all of that), I used to watch episodes of the US version on Showtime sometimes when everyone was in bed, and, maybe it was just my raging hormones, but I remember being mildly shocked by how much was shown. Sans genitalia, I specifically remember a scene where two guys were having sex in a kitchen; one was lying on the countertop getting 'done' by the other guy who was standing up, and there was a full-on pull-out and you saw semen splattering all over the bottom guy's stomach. Now, I'm not prude at all (in all reality, I of all people would find enjoyment in watching this), but I don't GET how people say the sex in this show was so 'light'. I know we all have different definitions of what is graphic and what is not, but this show was edgy. All storylines aside, the sex in it ranks as softcore porn with an edge as far as I'm concerned. Am I wrong about this?

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I have been a fan since day 1. I have NEVER heard anyone say the sex scenes were tame or light. Across the board, even the UK QAF fans have always agreed that the US show is more graphic.

They were so graphic, they redefined the ratings and filming of such shows for cable TV. The warnings that appeared before the show aired.... NO other show has ever come close, to this day.

The cast, crew, and every person I have ever heard have said yep, its so graphic, it would count as soft or even medium porn, but thats why they did it & why Showtime adopted their motto: No Limits.

Gotta say, surprised anyone told you the sex was anything less than graphic or that it was tame. Who are these people? Even the porn industry was shocked by what 'mainstream' actors would do on this show.

(and thank every deity that it wasnt tame or light!!!)

PS: I think your memory is a bit blurred about the kitchen/semen scene. I cant recall anything close to that and the rules for bodily fluids portrayed was severely regulated by Showtime. Never seen and had to be eluded too, like Justin spitting at the poster or Brian wiping off stuff (never seen) in the pilot, when Justin came too quickly.

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I think the scene he is talking about is the one where Brian "does" the trick on his table but is fantasizing that it's Justin...when he finishes he tells the trick to leave and the trick says "I shot a bucket full" and you can see it on his stomach.

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ah, never even thought of that scene, since its not in the kitchen, but a table would confuse things. (that was a very hot scene!)

Even still, you only see dampness on the guy and nothing being released (or fake released for tv). Its always aftermath and never in the moment.

One of the prop guys talked about it in a BTS interview... and how they could get away with more for Ted's website, because they intro'd the 'jizz ball' and that takes the human release aspect out and all the silly rules that QAF pushed, to stay on this side of not being porn, but damn close.

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It may have been that scene. I just remember seeing the last couple thrusts, semen on the guy's stomach (not sure if you saw ejaculation or not), and the guy threw him a towel and he wiped himself off and said he was going to take a shower. I was probably 15 when I saw this and it was, like, instant-boner.

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You NEVER saw ejaculation, or thrusts and then semen on QAF... they finished and then the kid got up and asked if he could take a shower, and you saw vague wetness on his belly & he said he blew a lot, but Brian kicked him out.

But for you to see it as a 15 yr old, major boner material & graphic enough!!

Netflix has it, not streaming, but DVDs. Sometimes you can find the box set cheap too. Its just as hot now as then. It really held up well, unlike many shows that seem way too dated. However, I did have to explain was a mix tape was to a younger friend who just watched...when she saw Brian change the tape in his jeep.

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Just thought of something... any chance the people who told you how tame they thought QAF was, only saw it on LOGO, where it was so edited, there was barely anything more than a kiss? I know many people who hated the show, because they only saw the edited version, but changed their mind when they saw it un-cut.

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How the hell did he get his own semen on his stomach? LOL

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How the hell did he get his own semen on his stomach? LOL
Really? Are you serious?
He was lying on his back... where else would it end up? Guys can sometimes shoot all the way up to their chins in that position.

You must not watch too much gay porn.




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When you're getting *beep* on your back where else would your semen go?

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Very true. And believe someone else said pretty much the same thing on this thread some time ago.

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Okay.

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Hmmm. It sounds like my comment was taken as being snippy or smart assed. Hope not, as it wasn't intended as such. Just meant to remark that two different people said very similar things years apart.

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THANK YOU. I'll trust your guys' judgments because it's been years since I saw an episode in its entirety, but I have personally had people tell me that they thought the sex scenes weren't "that bad", and I'm thinking to myself, "What planet are you from???". I'm glad that you guys are on my side with this. I thought maybe I was crazy because when I first watched it (as a gay teenager who was going through the whole self-realization thing) I remember it being really INTENSE. Like, I'd never seen straight sex scenes that were that graphic, let alone guy-on-guy sex (which was what I was really interested in anyway). I searched for some clips online recently to see if I was remembering it correctly and, yep— nothing's changed since I was fourteen. I'd argue that some of the sex scenes in this show are more erotic than a lot of [good] porn, especially so in that they are actual characters and not just random naked men, so there are emotions and other aspects of them being expressed through it.

I'd really like to track down the DVDs and watch the series from the start, because I was watching it sporadically throughout my high school years late at night when everyone was in bed (HA!).

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I never thought the show was graphic. Where was the penis? The sex scenes were more flashy and music video-ish, one of my biggest gripes with the show.

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You did have full frontal male nudity, the only lead cast that would do it, was Peter Paige.

You cant show an erect penis and not get an X rating. This was beyond NC17, and they had to petition to not be rated.

No, its not as graphic as porn, but that wasnt the question. For a tv show, was it graphic or tame? I would stand by saying it was & is still the most graphic American TV show.

If this was just a tame music video... name another tv show that showed more graphic sex, especially gay sex, so I can see your example of a more graphic TV show.

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"Knots Landing" and "Roseanne."

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I never thought the show was graphic. Where was the penis? The sex scenes were more flashy and music video-ish, one of my biggest gripes with the show....

If this was just a tame music video... name another tv show that showed more graphic sex, especially gay sex, so I can see your example of a more graphic TV show.

... "Knots Landing" and "Roseanne."


Tom- are you seriously trying to say that you saw more graphic sex scenes on network television? That is just a ludicrous assertion. The only thing you can say about Knotts Landing and Roseanne is that they were both daring for their era but what was actually depicted was child's play compared to the sex scenes in Queer as Folk.

Were you really expecting to see an erect penis on a television show? That's not allowed Standards and Practices even for premium pay cable channels like HBO and Showtime. The most you ever see is soft porn which can't show penetration or an actual erect penis. The only television show I know of that was able to show a little more was Tell Me You Love Me, which ran on Showtime. In a couple of scenes Ian Sommerhalder's character appeared to be erect during sex but it was actually a prosthetic penis. Showing anything more would mean an X-rating which can't be shown on television except on pay-per-view.

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Lighten up guys, it was a joke.

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Has "erect penis" ever been referred to this much in any other thread?



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I'm not sure what seeing an erect penis would have added to the story?

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I wonder if some of the people saying the sex scenes are tame have only seen them on Logo. The show is cut to ribbons on that network. I've even known them to cut away from kisses.

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I personally have no problem with sex scenes of any kind so nothing is too graphic for me, lol. I love it mostly for the steamy sex. I watched the British Queer as Folk on Hulu and the sex scenes in there did seem somewhat tamer than the American version, but maybe there were some cuts in that. I don't know.

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The sex scenes in the US version are a bit more detailed then the UK version, as far as I saw. I watched the first couple of episodes of the UK version on Hulu and thought the show was awful. Of course, I tried to watch the UK version after seeing every episode of the US version, so I was biased. The first sex scene between the UK version of Brian/Justin was not nearly as long or detailed as the US version. After they cut away, I was like "That's it?" As the US series progressed, we started seeing more and more flaccid members, mostly of random male extras. The only one of the main cast who showed his manhood was Peter Paige (Emmett), but only 2 times in the first season.

I remember the first time I watched the first episode of the US QAF, and I was a little bit surprised at the level of sex they implied during Justin and Brian's first time. I remember thinking, why did everyone make such a big deal about Brokeback Mountain? Obviously, none of them have seen QAF. The only sex scene between the guys in Brokeback was in near darkness in a tent. Most of the romps in the sack on QAF were usually always much more graphic than anything we saw in Brokeback, with a lot of thrusting and naked booties. QAF makes Brokeback look like Sesame Street.

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The only one of the main cast who showed his manhood was Peter Paige



Actually there is a scene in season one with Ted where you glimpse his member, it goes by pretty fast with a zoom-in sort of camera shot. But you do see it. It's best if you have a slow-mo option on your disc player, lol. Can you tell I've studied and noted these glimpses of unsheathed penises with the zeal of a Mr. Skin web researcher

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There's also a few times when you see a quick flash of Gale's member as well. In the pilot when Brian gets out of bed to go check his messages, in the beginning of ep. 3.2 you catch a glimpse when he bends over to pull up his pants, and in ep. 2.18 when Brian and Justin have sex against the pillar. Not that I was watching closely or anything.



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And Randy, think its s4 post cancer, one if the rolling around sex scenes, you get a pretty good look.

We used to have CSI experts on LJ, the C meaning Cock, screen caps and slo mo grabs... really, all but Hal were very brave and you got a decent look at the goods of the boys.

...in the name of science, of course.

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I just started re-watching season 1 a couple days ago... I just finished 1.10 last night. I always love watching the scene in Ep. 1 when Gale (Brian) gets out of bed "the morning after" and we get a clear shot of him in his naked glory from the back... no wang, though... I'll have to pay more attention to see the quick glimpses of the others that were mentioned.

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Haaaa!! So funny! Thank goodness there are people who are willing to make those sacrifices in the name of science!!

I do remember seeing a nice flash of Brian's bits from behind as he gets out of bed and walks to get the phone or somesuch, but I was too mesmerized by the entire gorgeous back of Gale, from his shoulders all the way down to his feet, to really notice any dangly bits. I'm sorry, but the man just takes my breath away.

Plus, I know the guys wore "c*ck socks" during most of the sex scenes, because there is some video of them (maybe included in one of the DVD extras) of them doing a ceremonial burning of the c*ck socks after they filmed their last sex scene. I think I found it on YouTube.

Imagine being the "c*ck sock" wrangler on the show?!

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Very true about Logo. Sometimes they would even cut the scenes adjacent to the sex scenes.

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The only criticism I am having about the sex scenes: they should have even more Brian in it and should not get interrupted so often by phone calls, cops waiting at the elevator, people knocking at the door or premature cuts to the next scene.

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That did happen a lot.But since Brian was engaged in this activity so often,it didn't seem odd that he would be interrupted on occasion.I found it mildly amusing myself.

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Hell, I could watch Gale Harold and/or Randy Harrison mostly naked and simulating sex all day long... *straight chick here* I could do without everyone else's sex scenes, really.

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Just the opposite here.I like variety in my graphic simulated sex. Everybody in all possible ways.And at the start of the show was an appreciative voyeur/perv for all couples.But eventually the disporportionate number of Brian/Justin love/sex scenes became redundant.Over time the sight of yet another B/J sex scene made me groan even louder than when the lesbians were up.Just too much of the same couple over and over again.Never got why so many B/J people complain because the soft core porn in this show isn't all Brian and Justin all the time,since that's almost the case anyway.

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The sex scenes were more flashy and music video-ish, one of my biggest gripes with the show.


Hmm, I respectfully beg to differ. There were many different variations of love/sex scenes on this show, and the Brian/Justin scenes especially ran the gamut. I think, throughout the run of the show, they pretty much had every type of sex together that two men can have; from the hot, steamy and sweaty writhing on Brian's bed (their first sex after Justin returns from California after the studio pulls the plug on the Rage movie), to the sweet, tender and romantic slow undressing, kissing and caressing in Brian's office (after they get back together after the violinist fiasco, S3, Ep 8). Blow jobs in alleys (one of my favorite moments in the whole series is when Justin has just finished going down on Brian in the freezing cold alley, and then spits his spunk at the poster of Stockwell!); quick humping to flashy lights and music in the back room of Babylon; the extremely hot, can't-keep-our-hands-off-each other sex in the loft (to Republica's great song "Ready to Go") when Stockwell visits Gardner tell him Brian has been sabotaging the campaign; the sweet and slow lovemaking when Justin wakes up after having the horrible flashbacks of his bashing at Gus' birthday party; sweet wet soapy shower sex (hmm, lots of that!), you name it.

The lighting and camera work, not to mention the music, on this show was amazing, especially during the Brian/Justin sex scenes. Brilliant work all around. The scene that I most noticed this was when Justin had been with Ethan, then came home and wanted to shower, but Brian got him all hot and bothered, and then left him hanging. This scene is so, so hot, and it's kind of strange that I took time to notice the lighting and music, but those things can really make a scene for me.

Also, in seeing the amazing chemistry (both physically and personality-wise) between Randy and Gale, I find it hard to imagine that those two didn't get together at least once in real life during the show's run. I can't imagine filming those scenes and making them look so natural unless you really liked the other person. They both seemed so natural together, like a real couple. And I imagine during the run of the show, that they both saw every inch of each others bodies, in every possible position, time of day, and circumstance, as possible! I guess there's no place for modesty in this type of role. They both had the amazing bodies to pull it off, for sure. And I like to imagine that Gale likes to wander around his house either mostly or entirely undressed! ;)

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Agree that qaf love scenes were not always "music video-ish" and that the sex scenes ran the gamut. But dissagree about Brian and Justin. Of all the sex scenes, theirs had the most "sameness" as well as most consistently resembling music videos. It was the other couples that provided variety and a break from sex accompanied by a musical score.

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I don't think music and lighting should be the criteria for how the sex scenes are evaluated. While they may have been most present in Brian and Justin's scenes I disagree completely that there was any "sameness" in their sex at all throughout the run of the show. It was amazing actually since they were the longest running male sex partners on the show. They were together from the very beginning to the very end. What I really enjoyed was watching how their relationship progressed, how they became different things to each other, the way they grew and altered and I think one of the best ways that was portrayed was through how they were shown having sex.

In season 1 it was all about lust, Brian as the teacher and Justin as the pupil, and Brian in ultimate control yet begin unable to resist Justin. In Season 2 their scenes were very different. They made love with such tenderness and need after Justin's injury, and there were moments when Brian was shown waiting up for Justin just so that he could be close to him. There was a different kind of partnership and need for intimacy between them. Justin was shown topping Brian. The "go take a shower" scene when Brian finds out about Ethan shows such a hurricane of emotions: lust, anger, passion, control, jealousy, possessiveness.

The reunion scene in Brian's office is joyful and urgent. And the majority of scenes in season 4 show a much more aggressive and in-control Justin. While Brian is still the usual technical top he seems more submissive. Justin is filmed on top of Brian more often than not, and it suggests another shift in the balance of their relationship.

The reunion scene after California shows the greatest balance of give and take of any of their sex scenes. There is a desperation to the scene, but incredible intimacy during and afterward. After the bombing of Babylon and Brian proposes he and Justin finally have the making love in front of a roaring fire scene that years of Brian's fear and denial had prevented. And the final sex scene between them needs no description. What is portrayed in those last few moments between them runs the gamut of human emotion. It leaves a lasting impression on the viewer. In my opinion there is absolutely no couple on the show... on any show I've watched that has managed to achieve that.

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But there was a sameness to their sex scenes. Regardless of the emotions the couple convey, the constant use of unusual camera perspectives and the ever present musical tracts give all their scenes a similar look and feel. And that look and feel is one of a music video.

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What I mean by music video-ish is also the epic attempts to hide any view of Pickle. If you watch the British original show (which, for the record, I don't think is very good, and I do much prefer the American one), they were not shy about just showing penis. If someone got out of bed naked, we saw their penis.

What I find unfair is that the lesbians' nudity was much more graphic and realistic. When Mel gets out of bed totally naked, we see everything, like we would in real life if we were viewing a real couples' bedroom, but when the men had sex, we saw a lot of butt but rarely any penis. The penises (aside from a few instances with Scott Lowell and Peter Paige) were usually from some random dude in the background of the locker room or at the dance club. I would have called the show "graphic" if all the male cast members showed penis in a realistic way.

When I say "Realistic Way," I am thinking of the kind of nudity you would find in the arthouse movies of the '70s or early '80s. For instance, I watched "Personal Best" and the nudity in that is very much like we are with the characters, peering in on them. I wish I could be more eloquent, but that's the only way I can think to word it.

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I am a gay man as well.

The original version of QaF(UK) was more graphic. But there were some sex scenes in the QaF(US) that I did not need to see.

One is when Ben is basically *beep* Michael, while telling him what he and Brian did at the White Party. That was just...blah.


The other one I could have gone without that did make me vomit was the scene in S5E01 where Justin returns to L.A.(which he should have never went since Brian still had not heard about his results if the surgery had been a success. Wrong of Justin, if you ask me.) anyway, and he walks in to Brian *beep* some tricks, smacks his ass, and talks to Justin while continuing to *beep* the trick. And Justin is smiling as if that was alright.

I loved the first Drew and Emmett sex scene and I loved Ted's pity *beep* Travis to get back at Travis for being his pity *beep* during Pride in season two. Scott is a dreamy bastard.

I could have went without all the Mel/Linds and hints of Horvath/Deb crap though.

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I also loved the Ted/Troy scene. It was all the more gratifying since most of Ted's sex scenes tend to be rather unhappy encounters.

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