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Child pornography masquerading as art!


This is child pornography masquerading as art. Please don't f'ing fly off your handles and start bashing me for being simple-minded and self-righteous.

I admired many aspects of the movie, but I can't for the life of me reconcile myself with the fact that a real 13-year-old had to bare her breasts in front of the cast and crew of the movie and tens of thousands of viewers.

I'm a tolerant person and all; I think euthanasia, prostitution, gay marriages and pot should all be legal. But this is intolerable.

The prefrontal cortex of the adolescent brain, the part responsible decision-making takes a f'ing vacation between puberty and early 20's. Therefore, claiming that a teenager willfully made a decision to participate in these scenes is absolute balderdash. Where the f' where her parents?

This is intolerable abuse of artistic license.

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"I admired many aspects of the movie, but I can't for the life of me reconcile myself with the fact that a real 13-year-old had to bare her breasts in front of the cast and crew of the movie and tens of thousands of viewers".

12-year old Brooke Shields not only bared her breasts in front of the cast and crew and tens of thousands of viewers in 1978 movie, "Pretty Baby", but she also bared her bare ass too. Why are you so paranoid with child nudity?

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For the very reason I explained earlier! Adolescents do not have the mental capacity to make decisions with a full view of the consequences, because physically, the prefrontal cortex of their brain does not function properly. I think any adult who convinces a child to participate in nude scenes with the claim that the child did it of his/her own volition is engaging in abuse of authority and artistic license. Period.

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"For the very reason I explained earlier! Adolescents do not have the mental capacity to make decisions with a full view of the consequences, because physically, the prefrontal cortex of their brain does not function properly. I think any adult who convinces a child to participate in nude scenes with the claim that the child did it of his/her own volition is engaging in abuse of authority and artistic license. Period."

So why don't you have the adults arrested, then?

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I wish they would be. But, oh well!

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"I wish they would be. But, oh well"!

They can't because no law was broken (especially in France).

You're only solution is not to watch these films. :)

This movie was banned in Ontario, Canada because it was considered "Child Porn" by the Ontario film board. But it backfired on them, because Ontario residents simply bought the DVD across the border in Quebec or in neighbouring U.S. states.

By the way. This film got a "13+" rating in Quebec. Meaning anybody 13 years old or older in that province can legally view it. It was also aired on Quebec public television while it was still banned in Ontario theatres at that time. So if you owned a satellite dish in 2002 and living in Ontario, you could still watch this film on a French TV channel from Quebec. Different cultures, different rules. Banning this stuff doesn't make any sense.

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Thank God for this word. Now we all have right to think the same what the poster wrote. It is the perfect example of democracy that is given to us by the First democratic country and the Leader of free world.

I like it even more when said by a person who finds euthanasia desirable. Not depending on the prefrontal cortex of the executed person.

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"Thank God for this word. Now we all have right to think the same what the poster wrote. It is the perfect example of democracy that is given to us by the First democratic country and the Leader of free world."

No need to get patriotic about it, przgzr. You have access to the Internet, like everybody else here does. If this movie was banned in the U.S., and you wanted to watch it badly, you'd find a way to get it. You simply use your imagination, and use a search engine, and order the movie from another country if you had to.

It's common sense. ;)

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It's not the access to Internet or movie that bothers me. I have seen the movie on TV (national channel, Europe). It is the "period" way of communication that makes me feel extremely unpleasant. This is "Saddam has biological weapon. Period." way of expressing attitudes. Every government is responsible to its citizens, when they ban something or let something free it is their population that will be happy or unhappy about it, and they will have to explain to their voters. But if Internet is multinational, multicultural, open to all people from all countries, one would expect that people who use it - especially on a site like this that is supposed to gather people with certain level of education and culture - would have some basic decency. However, certain people with certain attitudes from certain countries write post from "We, by mercy of God almighty, the Emperor of Internet" position, and "Period" ending leaves no place for any doubt, let alone discussion.

Sorry, but even the lines from Holy Book are free to discuss about and different interpretations are not a blasphemy. I haven't read any post here so far that would be stronger that the Lord's words, so that we should fall down on our knees and never dare to question any further.

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"It's not the access to Internet or movie that bothers me. I have seen the movie on TV (national channel, Europe). It is the "period" way of communication that makes me feel extremely unpleasant. This is "Saddam has biological weapon. Period." way of expressing attitudes. Every government is responsible to its citizens, when they ban something or let something free it is their population that will be happy or unhappy about it, and they will have to explain to their voters. But if Internet is multinational, multicultural, open to all people from all countries, one would expect that people who use it - especially on a site like this that is supposed to gather people with certain level of education and culture - would have some basic decency. However, certain people with certain attitudes from certain countries write post from "We, by mercy of God almighty, the Emperor of Internet" position, and "Period" ending leaves no place for any doubt, let alone discussion.

Sorry, but even the lines from Holy Book are free to discuss about and different interpretations are not a blasphemy. I haven't read any post here so far that would be stronger that the Lord's words, so that we should fall down on our knees and never dare to question any further."


Bringing politics into this doesn't make any sense, przgzr. Not everybody wants American culture in their countries. In fact, if you read some of the posts regarding French (or Quebec) cinema here, not evrybody wants French culture in their country either. So why try to enforce it?

"Fat Girl" is restricted to viewers 18 years or older in the United States. A 13 year old kid from New York State or Vermont can legally cross the Canadian border into Quebec, and buy the movie there. The rating for that same movie is "13+" in that province.

It's got nothing to do with a "Holy Book", it's what is accepted by the residents, and sexual relationships in films in Quebec is not an issue in that province.

Some posters make a stink on the content of a foreign film they watched. So if you don't like it, then don't watch it. It's plain and simple.

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I am a bit confused. Are we talking about the same thing? I know sometimes people press "Reply" button on last post, but in fact comment what someone wrote before. You, however, adress this reply to me personaly, so it must be something else. Yes, English isn't my first language, but during years of making contacts with people on IMDb I've never felt so misunderstood. Or I wrote some grammar mistakes and some wrong words anyway, and that led to misunderstanding?

I'll try to be clear now. I'm not talking about how to rent or see a movie. I've seen it, I've even taped it and, though finding it great in some aspects, I've deleted it because it wasn't that perfect to be kept for good. It was broadcasted on national air channel (not cable, not satellite), in late evening hours with a note that people under 15 are not suggested to watch it without adults; it was shown among other Breillat's movies, including Une vraie jeune fille, 36 fillettes etc. and again few months later, without any complaning.

But some people on this site have many objections regarding to the content or the way some scenes have been made. This is a place to write any kind of comments, including objections, remarks, notices. But also the other people, which find the movie good, or simply don't agree with comments and attitudes written in them should have the same right to respond, shouldn't they? However, "Period. This is the universal truth and there is nothing to add" doesn't follow this democracy rules - or am I wrong?

This is why I've mentioned Holy Bible: it was considered to be universal truth for centuries, but still it is open to different interpretations and people are free to comment it. Some posters here want their posts to have privileges bigger than the Bible has, obviously finding themselves more important, moral, righteous than God himself.

There is no "Period" at the end and never will be; but if I still haven't been clear enough please let me know at what point am I hard to understand. Otherwise I'm open to all comments and discussions.

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"I am a bit confused. Are we talking about the same thing? I know sometimes people press "Reply" button on last post, but in fact comment what someone wrote before. You, however, adress this reply to me personaly, so it must be something else. Yes, English isn't my first language, but during years of making contacts with people on IMDb I've never felt so misunderstood. Or I wrote some grammar mistakes and some wrong words anyway, and that led to misunderstanding?

I'll try to be clear now. I'm not talking about how to rent or see a movie. I've seen it, I've even taped it and, though finding it great in some aspects, I've deleted it because it wasn't that perfect to be kept for good. It was broadcasted on national air channel (not cable, not satellite), in late evening hours with a note that people under 15 are not suggested to watch it without adults; it was shown among other Breillat's movies, including Une vraie jeune fille, 36 fillettes etc. and again few months later, without any complaning.

But some people on this site have many objections regarding to the content or the way some scenes have been made. This is a place to write any kind of comments, including objections, remarks, notices. But also the other people, which find the movie good, or simply don't agree with comments and attitudes written in them should have the same right to respond, shouldn't they? However, "Period. This is the universal truth and there is nothing to add" doesn't follow this democracy rules - or am I wrong?

This is why I've mentioned Holy Bible: it was considered to be universal truth for centuries, but still it is open to different interpretations and people are free to comment it. Some posters here want their posts to have privileges bigger than the Bible has, obviously finding themselves more important, moral, righteous than God himself.

There is no "Period" at the end and never will be; but if I still haven't been clear enough please let me know at what point am I hard to understand. Otherwise I'm open to all comments and discussions.

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No you haven't been clear. You're quoting bull$hit from the Bible which has got nothing to do with the original topic. I'm talking about cultural differences. How on Earth did you feel the "Bible" or Religion has got to do with anything with the original topic? You're not making any sense.

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I could have used Marx' "Capital" or Kur'an or Mao Zedong's book instead of Bible. It really doesn't, or better shouldn't have anything to do with topic. This books have been - for certain people - considered universal and untouchable truth for (shorter or longer) period of time. During that time people have been hanged, burned, shot, sent to Siberia, tortured in dungeons and police stations just because of a single word that doubted truth from those books. Today all of those books still exist, some people still find them telling absolute truth, but in most of the world they are free to be discussed about and differently interpreted.

Some people on this board (have you read those comments??) think their attitude and interpretation of the movie is the only one that should exist and the word "Period" at the end of their post reminds me on battle cries of communist leaders at the end of their speeches. They are sending curses and fetvas on all of us that dare to say a positive word about movies they hate and despize for being immoral, sinful, tasteless and blasphemous.

And if you think I'm using Bible for no reason, you probably haven't read other threads related to "Fat Girl", especially the (very long) "Please - avoid at all costs". If you find some spare time, please read at least its opening post, and maybe you'll see what I mean. So, about Bible-topic relation...

And... it appears to me... could it be that you haven't understood the sarcasm in my first "Period" named post?

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so I wouldn't worry so much przgzr.
If they've said (or given the impression) that it's not open for discussion that just shows you how mature they are.

I really don't see the use in being concerned about whether the girl was old enough to have consented to filming or not. First of all it's in the past. All the outrage in the world can't go back and change what's happened.
As for concern for the future, you can't control what's going on behind closed doors and what any director or actors may engage in.

If any law were broken it should (and I assume was?) brought up and dealt with at the time.

But if Internet is multinational, multicultural, open to all people from all countries, one would expect that people who use it - especially on a site like this that is supposed to gather people with certain level of education and culture - would have some basic decency.



It's open to anyone, not only that but is anonymous which means all kinds of people will gather (trolls, timewasters, troublemakers, preachers) and most intelligent cultured people wouldn't waste their time on message boards trying to get through to the general population or general internet population anyway.

I don't see the point of banning films. I think it's ludicrous actually. That's why I'm suprised at what you said Troy-Boy1971. You appeared to be against it too? But why SHOULD I (or the person you were directing your comment at) have to go online and seach for hours, sometimes even weeks and months to find a DVD. Pay extra to get it imported, pay money as it comes through customs, make sure my DVD is the right region etc.

Suppose they wanted to ban tomatoes or something because "someone" in charge didn't particularily like them or think it was good for the country's citizens. Is that fair to the general population who might want tomatoes?
If they sit on a shelf in a supermarket they're not doing anyone any harm. Especially those who don't want to eat tomatoes. They are there for those who want them, or at least want a choice. I think EVERYONE would like to have choice, no?
Isn't that everyone's right?

There is NO PROOF that a tomato or a film will have a bad effect on someone. In fact, some people may have a bad reaction to tomatoes, but you wouldn't ban them just because a few people had a bad reaction to it or didn't know HOW to react to it. This is the kind of thing that's happening in the world today though. Political correctness, fear of lawsuits etc. Putting excessive warning labels on stuff. Eg: packet of nuts : this product contains nuts.
Microwave: don't use for drying your cat
Hot Coffee: warning, hot! don't spill on yourself as it may cause a burn

REALLY?

Back to banning films though- It's complete BS. I believe that's what the watershed is for, and I have no problem with the watershed. No, Fat Girl should not be shown at 4pm in the afternoon. That makes sense.
But why should it not be shown AT ALL or in FULL because SOMEONE decided ..... well.. what did they decide actually? Because I see no good reason for banning or censoring ANY film.

You don't like it? Don't watch it. You saw something you didn't like? Switch it off and think about WHY you didn't like it, then deal with your own emotions.

You have access to the Internet, like everybody else here does. If this movie was banned in the U.S., and you wanted to watch it badly, you'd find a way to get it. You simply use your imagination, and use a search engine, and order the movie from another country if you had to.


It's common sense. ;)

That's not common sense. Not only is it hard to impossible to find some films, I don't see why anyone should have to go out of their way to watch this film. Also, a person doesn't usually purposely seek out films they might like to watch. They usually take their pick of what is available. Since they made Fat Girl unavailable we're not free to choose it if we wanted. A lot of things in life happen by chance. How do you usually find your films? Look through message boards or a database of films and then go out of your way to find a copy of something specific? Probably not.

That's what I don't like. It's something like a mother trying to "protect" their children from things. Who are they (the state, or people who ban/censor films) to decide what is okay for me to see? It's just one example of how a country trys to control it's citizens and make them think less, or think what they want them to think.
No, it's not as simple as just ordering it online. Even then, that's hardly simple.


And that's all i have to say about that. For now.

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"First of all it's in the past."

Yes, but it has an influence today, too. And, just for avoid their movies being banned, directors don't make brave movies any more. Americans gave up long ago, European authors have changed in last 10 years. Their movies look more and more like American: the more Americans become more strict, the more Europeans become more careful. Simple reason: it seems that literally every European director dreams that his movie will be released in USA (and maybe get Oscar nomination), and he mustn't put a single scene or content that would be questionable to Americans. Modern European directors seem to be frustrated they're not Americans and they make Europe look less worth. Besides, all European movies now look similar to American, and that makes things even worse, because American movie quality is worse then ever in their (up to few decades ago) great movie history.

Otherwise I agree with your post, as you've guessed.

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Yeah I was just meaning that complaining in this way, (on a completely unrelated message board...) no directors are going to read or take notice of it.. it doesn't influence films that are in the process of being made, and not the future.

Although I think that they are getting stricter too, (so there's not that much to worry about in the child nudity department) I think part of the reason is to reach a wider audience and avoid lawsuits and public scandal.
But these laypeople can worry and be concerned all they want but they have ZERO say in any of it, and all their venting and "warnings" and concerns put forth on a message board isn't going to turn back time or change what the film rating bosses choose to do.

Luckily.
Like I always say, i'm not aroused by the film so I see nothing that concerns me. If the people see the film or little girl's body as sexual then it's THEM who have the problem. That's precisely why some of them are so bothered by it. They need to get off here and work out their issues elsewhere.


And that's all i have to say about that. For now.

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We obviously didn't think the same by "influence"; I ment that attitudes people express (not only on IMDb), and they do it very loud, make censors stricter and authors more careful and avoiding some "disturbing" content or scenes.

Or do you think that a person whose major argument is "period" - "I say that so everyone is free and obliged to think the way I do" - would only sent posts to IMDb? I'm sure they do the same on PTA, Party and chuch meetings, write to congressmen, TV stations, Oprah etc. And that is the influence I was talking about. Yes, and due to that "to reach a wider audience and avoid lawsuits and public scandal" became a priority, so new movies are mostly pale, boring, whatever thema do they deal with.

Someone would say "period". Not me. I am not going to change anybody's mind. I just want them to know there are still people who weren't sucessfuly brain-washed.

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Um...Greece was the first democratic country (offically). And how American of you to be afraid of something as simple as sexuality among youngsters and realistic films(sad that there wasn't a happy ending?).
Guess what sugar, these thing can happen (and DO happen) out here in real life. Why should France pretend that life is one big musical with only perty people? Why should anyone do that?
There is a reason to why people decide to make these kind of movies: they are tired with all the meaningless crap that Hollywood spits on on regular basis.
And if MY goverment meddled in what kind of movie I should see, I would demand their resignation.
If you can't handle it, don't watch it. Simple as that.

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I don't get it. For years I scream against censorship, I demand right for every movie to be shown uncut as a piece of art, I accuse Americans for brainwashing all of their entertainment products consumers, I find Oprah and Hollywood bigger danger for all nations (those that are still free in mind and soul, regardless politics - though it seems the number is decreasing) then Bush and NATO, I claim for freedom of nations to keep their traditions, way of life and culture unpolluted by foreign influences...

Then I made a reaction when someone American or American-minded tried to shut mouths and dry pens of us all that dare to think differently, using one simple word, "Period", as the only argument, as Amen or Howgh or instant applause after dictator's speech when noone is free to say anything more, especially opposing the attitude so firmly underlined by "Period" word or witch-hunt cries of the orator.

And after all I am called American, Hollywood fan, antisexual (or at least not accepting the fact that sexuality doesn't fal from heaven when someone reaches 18), away from reality etc etc.

For your information, and you obviously weren't wiling to check any: if you love European, French, free-minded, controverse or any movies you think I am against, and if you love "A ma soeur", how can it be that you didn't visit other treads where you can read many posts I've written. Check "Please - Avoid at all costs" thread and if you have time read all the posts (about 70 so far), or at least my post dated on Aug 24 2006, then "This film went too far" (Feb 16 2007), "Crazy director" (only 4 posts on the thread, try to read all of them), "Disturbing: violence or nudity"... and then tell me with arguments why am I American, non-democratic etc.

I also write comments, mostly about European movies, and many of them were the first comments ever written on IMDb about the particular film. Yes, some of the comments were given bad marks because mostly Americans read and rate the comments. Some got no marks because probably (almost) noone watches those movies, let alone visits their boards. Among all the comments, and to keep some binding to this board, I would suggest you to read what I wrote about "Ça s'appelle grandir". You'll maybe be the first one to ever do it in three years as it's there, but you'll maybe understand my attitudes better.

Of course, if you care at all. Some people like to show their attitudes and think it's the best way to do it by accusing and humiliating other posters.

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12-year old Brooke Shields not only bared her breasts in front of the cast and crew and tens of thousands of viewers in 1978 movie, "Pretty Baby", but she also bared her bare ass too. Why are you so paranoid with child nudity?
Yet again...the weak "two wrongs make a right" pathetic argument surfaces. Here's a suggestion for you: go jump off a roof because so-and-so jumped off a roof. How's that?

(Oh...and the question isn't why is anyone paranoid about child nudity; the real question is why are YOU so supportive of pedophilia?)

"Love isn't what you say or how you feel, it's what you DO". (The Last Kiss)

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What constitutes 'pornography' lies in the eye of the beholder, and nudity isn't considered disrespectful in Europe. Given the context (i.e. it's a serious movie, not a porno) I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. It was not a sexual scene, and it was most definitely not intended to titillate.

Suggesting that any time a kid is shown nude on the screen is a simple case of his being taken advantage of for the sexual gratification of predators is just way too simplistic reasoning. If you want people to see the uglier sides of life, showing them cleaned up feel-good versions thereof in a nice Hollywood package is utterly pointless. You can't focus on the content while ignoring the context. There's a huge difference between portraying a nude 13 year old in a sexual context and non-sexual context, and the average viewer is perfectly capable of differentiating between the two.

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I know I'm late as *beep* on this reply...but oh well....this was too tempting to pass up lol This -hordak-2 guy has to be some kind of legally retarded. "It was not a sexual scene" lol... wow....Is he serious? Getting raped isn't sexual? Lol wtf O.o I don't see how some people have the intelligence to turn on their computers and log on to imdb.

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maybe english isn't his/her first language?
because i would agree that a lot of the "sex" portrayed in the film ended up seeming awkward and definitely not arousing... so in that sense the intention may not have been explicitly sexual but..."artistic"...or whatever.

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Clearly, going by the giggles, you're not too equipped to have an adult conversation about such issues.
The fact is, many 13 year olds are sexually active these days. And many are raped. Many are curious about their bodies.
I think if you had bothered to read what the poster you ridicule with such relish wrote, he/she obviously meant it wasn't intended to be sexually titillating. It's intended to reflect real, complex emotions and situations of a 13 year old. That's not pornography, and it's not intended to get twits like you off.

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ORLY?! I'm totally fapping to this then.

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The prefrontal cortex does not "take a f'ing vacation" between puberty and the early 20s, it is developing during that time. And if it develops in isolation, with no social and ethical crises to help it develop, you end up an emotional cripple for the rest of your life. It's like when kids are very small and the verbal part of their brain is developing. If you lock them up in a closet and don't expose them to speech, they will never be able to gain the ability to speak (see any documentary on feral children for verification of this).

Puberty is not some cruel joke played on the human race by evolution. It does not give us drives and desires that will destroy us psychologically. And as for a girl exposing her breasts and other people seeing them? There are around 6 billion breasts in the world, I suggest you and everyone else get over them.

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Apparently you've never been to a beach in Europe.

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TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION ABOUT WHERE THE F--K WHERE HER PARENTS. THEY WERE MOST LIKELY ON THE SET BEING THAT THE ACTRESS WAS A MINOR. YOU TALK ABOUT THE STATE OF HER "PREFRONTAL CORTEX". ARE YOU A NEUROLOGIST?

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I would first read definition of pornogrphy and then write. Showing bare breasts is NOT considered as pornography.

There is a strict definition of what prornography is.

You might be tolerant which I doubt but you seem superficial here.

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It's nothing that a multitde of girls don't voluntarily submit to the internet every day.

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prostitution okay but a girl's natural sexuality not okay?...i think u have things backwards buddy...u think it is fine to dehumanize and take for granite a women's sexuality in the form of prostitution...but u see women's natural body and that is bad just bcus she is 13? most people who see a naked kid, its just a naked kid, nothing to be ashamed of thats what the human body is...why did YOU find that scene pornographic?...that says something about the way you look at naked 13 year olds who are being raped

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