.. because he's rich, because other women love him (major pre-selection), and so on.
Man's good looks to a woman, are like woman's job is to a man. If you hear some gorgeous asian girl is a stewardess or a club hostess, it might rise the arousal a notch, but it alone is not enough to make the man feel attraction towards the woman. An ugly, old hag can be an air hostess all she wants, but men won't still find her attractive. It can add as a nice bonus to an already existing attraction, though.
Women can appreciate man's looks intellectually, artistically, visually, and in a myriad of other ways, but a man's good looks are -never- directly connected to her sexuality, and hence, attraction. Man's good looks can't attract a woman, they can only get her attention.
This is why you see gorgeous women with really ugly men - women's sexuality doesn't care about a man's looks one way or the other AT ALL. I know, it's hard to swallow, but think about all the evidence.
Now, the thing that messes up and muddies the water even more, is that as I mentioned men doing, women ALSO project.
When a woman sees a 'good-looking man', she doesn't think 'ooh, good-looking man, I am so attracted'. She thinks 'ooh, he must be a doctor / wealthy / CEO / biker gang member / celebrity / alpha male / PUA..'
You get the idea. Woman doesn't just see the good looks, she PROJECTS status on top of those good looks, and THAT is why it looks like women are attracted to man's good looks. But she really isn't, she's just mesmerized by her own projections, and she'll only get -truly- attracted once she confirms that yes, the man does have high status, OR she'll become sahara desert once she realizes the man has NO status.
There are so many forms of status, though, and a good-looking man usually has high confidence, that might be misplaced, because he THINKS women are attracted to her good looks, when in fact, it's the confidence gained from this wrongful thinking that attracts the women.
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avortac4 (3744)
4 years ago
It's like a self-perpetuating cycle.
Let's say you're a nobody, you have no prospects, no career, no money, no confidence, you feel self-pity, and you're a Linux-nerd living in your mom's basement and you are so shy, you don't dare even look women in the eyes, let alone say anything to them, especially pretty girls or women.
You can be the most chiseled-faced Greek God when it comes to looks, but when the woman realizes you do not live in the godly realms, but in a very earthly poverty and loserdom, she will have exactly zero attraction for you, and will go with that fat, dirty, smelly, rude and grotesque guy that treats her, oh, so wrong. The guy with charisma and game.
Be good-looking with no status, and woman won't feel attracted to you.
Be ugly, even grotesque, with any form of status, and woman will feel attracted to you.
I hope I don't have to explain this again, it's exhausting, because although it's simple, it's just so difficult to explain.
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