I'd be interested to know why you think this film is sexist?
I never liked this film, and it angered me back in the 80's. I was the same age as the protagonists. It was accurate to some degree, in capturing the mood of the day. I always thought the attitudes of the Elizabeth Perkins character and Demi Moore's to a lesser extent were indicative of post-feminist, post sexual revolution, confusion. They wanted to turn love and relationships into war and politics.
I definitely knew some women like this in the 80's, and learned to stay away from them. These are the women who never found happy relationships. Being in a relationship was so hard back then, I gave up dating at times. I became a proposition where the male just couldn't win, no matter how nice, supportive, giving, etc... I ended up marrying some one ten years younger than me, she didn't have any off the hang-ups we see in this film.
This film seems to be written from that perspective.
But, in hindsight, I think my generation did come along at an awkward and confusing time. Being the first generation after a colossal cultural revolution was not easy. Sex became about politics. This film does show that.
I think things are a lot more easy today, and women have learned not to sabotage their relationships for the sake of feminism.
I'm a civilian, I'm not a trout
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