People nowadays are labouring under the illusion that "offensive" means something tangible. All it really means is that you were offended, and really, who cares if you were offended? The world is not going to play by rules dictated by one person, or even one group of people. People are always going to offend, and people are always going to feel offended. It's unavoidable. And part of being a grown up is learning and accepting that.
Find a way to deal with the fact that you will be offended occasionally, and that the mere fact that you feel offended doesn't necessarily mean squat. TV Shows, movies, books, music, people on the street, they're sometimes going to offend you. Get over it.
Of course, there are extreme cases where what's being said is inciting violence or actively discriminatory or defamation and so on. But as grown ups, we need to be able to tell the difference between the serious threats to the safety of others, and what just plain hurts somebody's feelings (like somebody saying there's a God, or not a God, or somebody having a Nickleback CD or something). Pick your battle very carefully. And don't expect anything to happen just because you heard something you don't like.
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