Why can't we call it a mental problem?
"Gender dysphoria is a term that describes a sense of unease that a person may have because of a mismatch between their biological sex and their gender identity. This sense of unease or dissatisfaction may be so intense it can lead to depression and anxiety and have a harmful impact on daily life."
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/
As sense or feeling, not literally born in the wrong body. It's in their mind, so why is it mean to acknowledge that?
People who have multiple personalities: in their head. People who believe they would be better off missing a limb (body integrity identity disorder): in their head. But this is taboo. It's mean to say people with gender dysphoria or gender identity disorder have a mental health problem. It's somehow gotten tied into gay rights.