This guy's nailed it!
This guy's a genius. Exactly how I see it, is how he explains it. I can't believe so many more matured women (particularly 40 onward), can't figure this out.
https://youtu.be/MPYCPiJ_n7Y
I didn't watch the video, but if there are any attractive 43-year-old women out there, I'd happily date them. Although I do want kids, assuming they are still capable of giving birth, I'm not going to judge them for being in their forties.
shareYou should watch at least half of it. But why not be judgmental of them? They're very much that way with us. I can't believe that some people are still so confounded by are social network today, and what it's become. It's been made into a literal game of one-upmanship. With all of these expectations many have the nerve to foist onto others. I'm talking about attitudes of "he asked me on the date, he should pay". Besides, he's the man. Or, what can he offer me for how good I see myself for a so called worthy man. We've made relationships and courtship so complicated and problematic it's no wonder many now, just say "fu*k it"! not worth it! Or some people just become so bitter and disillusioned they may start wondering if it would just be easier being gay.
shareChanging your sexual preference because of bad relationships and poor prospects for future relations is valid now? God save us all (and I say that as a non-theist).
shareI've known many women who left abusive relationships with men and became lesbians. It's quite common actually.
shareI don't know if I'd consider changes done under terrible stressors as "valid." And if it were valid does it kind of offset the entire "born this way" argument for any sexual preference?
shareI've never believed we are born with any set sexual orientation. I think it develops slowly through childhood and usually becomes set after puberty and perhaps some experimentation.
We've all heard of men who are married to a woman and have children and then decide they're gay when they're in their 40's.
I don't think women change quickly under stress. I think some lesbians associate men with violence, women are soft and more appealing, and it just comes naturally.
I have a massive amount of respect for lesbians, but the irony is that some of the least soft and non-violent women, in my experience, are often lesbians...
I like women who stand up for themselves, and aren't dainty and weak, BUT I've seen so many stories of lesbian couples who've abused/killed their own children, especially when they were boys...
Yes there are the classic bulldykes with a ducktail haircut who rides a motorcycle. But there are the softer femme types as well. Or ... there's just your average woman. We're not all stereotypes!
shareI hate lesbians.
shareYOU SUCK...BUT GOOD POINTS...I AGREE.
shareI believe we that sexual orientation is inborn.
Because a shit-ton of heterosexual dislike the opposite sex, but even those that want to can't change.
Tell me the gods honest truth of what you felt when you first seen a skin magazine of the opposite sex. I'm going with a skin magazine, because I suspect that's usually how most young people first get a good look at the opposite sex naked. I know when I seen one as a kid and looked at a hot Centre fold wide spread, I just wanted it! lol. So I know I was straight from a young age.
shareThat doesn't conflict with anything I said. When I was in kindergarten I had crushes on both boys and girls. I was bisexual even then. I believe as Freud did that sexuality begins with idolization of different male and female roles before you're 5.
When I was an adolescent I "experimented" with boys my own age who went on to marry women and have children.
It's more fluid than most will admit.
THANKS for shoe horning in homosexuality (or whatever fifty terms it is now days). Can't go one thread, even about hetero relationships, with out going off track and gay.
Gotta love current world trends.
It's a lot less natural than most will admit. Thus, the variety of issues surrounding it. CONSTANTLY.
Meanwhile, back to this thread about STRAIGHT PEOPLE.....
Hahaha. The straight male can't control the dialog and he's angry!!!🤣
Why am I not surprised the straight guy thinks it has to be about him all the time? And then you wonder why women are considering other options.
This thread is about a middle aged woman wondering why she can't find a partner. She needs to expand her dating pool when straight males are chasing after younger fertile options. It's not all about breeding.
Give us are fucking 20%, you raging homophobe.
Just remember, the government secretly despises gays and bisexuals. They've just come to sort of accept that it's a necessary evil to accept you people. Eventually, you'll all be shuffled back into your closets where you belong. Our societies can't be sustained with useless people who can't procreate.
shareHahaha. In an overpopulated world unchecked breeding is what we do not want.
Oh please, they're all fawning over Pete Buttigieg. (Whom I detest by the way).
The world's going back to the way it was 2000 years ago in terms of bisexuals and homo's. In ancient Greece and Rome it was a sexual free-for-all.
The Bible and Christianity no longer rules the world. Nobody cares who you fuck anymore, cretin.