My girlfriend has a MUCH older friend

But . . . But, you look like a young Antonio Banderas and you have gay men offering you $300 to have their way with you and you are 20 years old and an aspiring actor who thinks that cleaning up trash on a theme park will open the way to a movie career and you have at least 2 sock puppets here who write and (allegedly) think exactly as you do, and you wonder why your “girlfriend” prefers the company of pussy?

I’m being harsh. I understand that you wonder about a lot of things. You are not bright.

And you will be back instantly to dispute me, because that is what stupid posters do. They respond INSTANTLY to the slightest insult, whether real or perceived, absent pausing 1 jot to think, because they cannot. I don’t mean “cannot pause.” I mean “cannot think.”

Have a fictional threesome, then write a fictional post about it.

Don't see why it would even matter to you.

AND TO THINK...I HAVE BEEN CUTTING YOU SOME SLACK BECAUSE TCRUM TOLD ME YOU WERE TRYING.😐

She should be trying to find a husband? Not if she doesn't want a husband. Women can, and do, willingly make it on their own. This goes for men who don't want wives, as well.

Oh, never mind. I just read the responses to your post and what you wrote all makes sense.

10 years is not way older. Try at least 15.
And they are friends. Don't you have older friends?

But isn't this relationship mutually gratifying? Just like the older woman gets to enjoy events aimed at younger audiences without feeling weird, the younger one gets to enjoy something only an older woman can offer (wisdom, confidence, access to certain things like alcohol, etc.). Which is just called friendship anyway.

Maybe they offer each other a different perspective, or maybe they're totally mismatched as friends - but either way, if your girlfriend has no issue with her friend's age, which means it's not an issue, what's the problem?

Either way, no woman is obligated to look for a husband, regardless of age.