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Just wondering…


Have you ever tried to get a former friend to change their mind about being friends with you?

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I’m pretty sure you’ve asked this before and the general consensus was that you should move on.

If you need to beg for friendship it really isn’t worth it. Save your energy for people who want to be friends with you.

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I concur. 👍🏻

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You'd be surprised what locking people in a cage can do.

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Not since elementary school, or maybe Jr High. Maybe. If someone doesn't want to be friends with me, then why would I want them to be?

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This is about a girl he's been stalking for years, and why doesnt she just understand how wonderful he is and if I could just make her see type of situation.

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I was trying to be polite. I should have just stuck with my initial thought of not saying anything at all.

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Polite time has expired .

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Actually, it’s not just one girl, it was multiple guys and gals across the years. The most recent one was back in 2020, where a girl cut me off for a political disagreement. It was a while ago yeah but sometimes it still hurts. 😓

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Did anyone else think "Oh God, Jason is wondering about something" when they saw the thread?

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I have a lot more sympathy for him since he posted his photo, he looks sweet.

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I was surprised by his appearance. I pictured him very differently.

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If you're talking about an ex girlfriend, just forget it. If there was a romantic involvement which went sour, move on or you come off as a stalker.

If it's a platonic friendship, say with a male friend, sure, friends fight and make up and become friends again. It happens all the time.

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WHY DOES EVERYONE HATE YOU?🤔

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Not everyone does. I didn’t recently lose a friend or anything. It’s just a did in the past and when I tried to get them back they just blocked me or told me to go away which hurts even to this day. I even tried to request another former friend on Instagram recently but she just blocked me which doesn’t help.

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Sure, that never works out though, some friendships just don’t last all too long and that’s always a bummer!

A good Pal of mine shot himself in the head with his .380 pistol, a lot of people in my neighborhood said it was suicide but I knew my buddy more than they did, he just got lazy cleaning his pistol and that was that.

My honest opinion is if you love them tell them so.

Friends are important to some people, love your friends and always keep them close while they are here.

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Nope. People that do not forgive you, they're no friends.

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