Once a girl said to me "don't touch me, that's sexual assault".
Context.
I was at a club and it was latin night.
I was dancing with a bunch of people and this girl was in front of me so I moved in and placed my hand on her hip. She lost it.
How is that sexual assault?
No one believes any of your BS though it’s quite likely that you sexually assault yourself several times a day
shareWhat's funny is that she said all this in Spanish and I knew what she was saying. Thank you high school Spanish classes.
Her buddies (men) stepped in and were like "back up dude".
YES, YOU TOUCHED HER AGAINST HER PERMISSION
shareOnce I said to a girl in the same club "wow nice dress" and proceeded to run my hand from her back to her tush. Now that was pushing it. She smiled and thanked me for the compliment. She was Brazilian. Different culture. This other chick was Spanish I believe. More frigid.
shareIt was probably some sort of sexual assault or battery. A runner was charged with sexual battery for smacking a reporter's butt as she reported on the race. She should have quickly moved away from the race when she realized she was distracting the runners. The reporter would have moved if she had received a KANCHO!
https://www.runnersworld.com/news/a30172249/tv-reporter-groped-while-live-on-air/
It wasn't sexual assault, but hey! She stopped you being a dick! Well done, girl!
FYI you don't touch strangers on the waist or the hip, it's rude and creepy. Just don't.
Sometimes girls like to be touched. It's called making a move.
shareWas she actually dancing with you? Or was she just near you, and you grabbed her? I wouldn’t call it sexual assault either way in the context of a club dance floor, but if it’s the latter you have to be better at reading the signs.
shareYeah I mean I grabbed a part of the body that you normally get to touch in many dance styles.
shareI don't know if it's really sexual assault or sexual harassment, but I could see why she wouldn't want a stranger to touch her without her consent. Bottom line, just play it safe and don't touch someone without their permission.
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