why does internet assume one is "UPSET" because they ask a question?

(feel free to preassume I am UPSET about this topic about being upset, because, you know, what's to be expected, I guess?? I'm not UPSET about this, just asking a question based on the curiosity surrounding surrounding these actions)

Post a question is not an automagic admittance of being upset over said topic.
I've very curious why people's first response is too assume the issue is a big deal enough to be upset over? Just because it is brought up to discuss?

me thinks people don't know the definition of the term "upset":
a state of being unhappy, disappointed, or worried.

It's totally possible to ask about something without being unhappy, disappointed, or worried over it.

Is this that pussified generation of people that fear everything is a micro aggression, assume social justice must be dealt everywhere, and look for protests in everything?

Seriously trying to see where the human communications disconnect is occuring (I still blame the internet for fucking communication up) .... maybe it is because people spend too much time over thinking pointless ramblings in online forums to respond rationally anymore.

I'm asking this to get a plethora of responses from people with a wide variety of experiences and perspectives, but I am not "UPSET" about this.... simple asking a question. Like normal, well adjusted humans normally do. :)