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Dear friends...


...why people keep asking you "how do you feel"when someone you love dies?...it hapened to me 6 months ago when my fiancee died in the hospital after she survived a car accident.Many of you will be surprised about this...but,this is no joke.

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croft! I'm shocked! You never said a word in the seven months we have all been posting here. or has it been eight? and you say she died six months ago?
I'm very sorry to hear about anyone losing a loved one. I have experienced such pain in my own life.
I'm not exactly sure of what to say to you. I promise you that I won't ask how you feel.
Something like this isn't a joke.

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I was trying to keep the pain of loosing her in me,but....i had to talk at some point.I feel that i won't release the pain will lead to something else.

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Thanks. Over the years, special people in your life leave you along the way. It always leaves a void that's hard to reconcile.

As for jokes, I can't help thinking that the whole joke was on us from the very beginning.
It pisses me off when I think that someone has deliberately set out to make a fool out of me. It dosen't sit too well.....

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so this whole thing is a joke ???

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That seems to be trending...

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I will give him the benefit of the doubt for now

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At a time of crisis, try to remember that it is not all about you. They are probably just doing their best to show concern and don't know how. It's hard not to superimpose our own feelings and reactions into things when we are stressed ... that is the way our brains work ... or don't work. Sorry about your fiance. American society is so twisted anymore, there are no social norms, and everyone willing to get screaming mad at a moments notice ... not a good combination.

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Sorry to hear it bro
Are you feeling ok??

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Thank you,mate...i'm alright.

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Im sure you are

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good to hear

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And i asure you i will never betray your trust of any of you...i read some of the post about what hapened with Daniela and i saw that you think that i told you about this only now after 6 months...for attention or simpathy...no,it's not true.

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I posted nothing of the sort...i stayed out of it cuz youre a fun guy and i like you...but lay off bro
Busted.

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How do you feel......now?
Still puzzled?

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I'm curious if this was before or after the dog incident in the dead of night.

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