Did you go out with her? 😁

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

After you break up with her, she will probably lose the weight and become “attractive” again, lol

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

Thanks!

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

Poet?

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

The first thing that came to my mind is that she decided not to do the online thing to meet people. Like—it’s one thing to have this vision in your head about the kind of person you’d like to meet but when you have to act it out in reality it can overwhelm and maybe frighten you. You can try again after some time goes by...If she still doesn’t respond, then let her be. There’s only so much you can do.

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

Well how did she respond to your comment?

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

Kudos to you doing it anyway!

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

Did you approach them or did they approach you?

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

That’s the one good thing about going through all the BS—you realize what you are no longer willing to tolerate.

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

I’m so happy you are now at peace with your past. I hope we both find people who truly care!

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

I am so happy for you!!!

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

That is certainly understandable. I’m a woman and I’m surprised by how women treat men these days. One lady (who is NOT my friend) told me (in response to my shock at how cold she is to men), “Well, you haven’t been hurt enough.” Um, yes I have but it’s a choice you make on how you’re going to treat people! What are you doing to heal your emotional abuse?

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

How are things now? Were you able to “do it scared”, so to speak?

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

Personally I think it’s admirable to still be a virgin these days. The only reason I don’t regret having sex is because I am a mother now. I can empathize with you because of the amount of unrequited love/ rejection I’ve faced over the years from really cold-hearted people. Because of that, I’ve been celibate for years and just trying now to become friends with a man I’m interested in. It’s scary because after being alone for so long...how do you accept someone else returning your affections? That’s scary to me now. I don’t want to sabotage it. You can get to a point where you’re so used to rejection that you end up anticipating it and unintentionally pushing the other person away. What would it be like if you actually got your wish?

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

So who showed up? 😊

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

That’s wild and flattering and kinda scary

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

🤣🤣🤣

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

That’s very good to know as well. Thank you! On a personal note: I am very shy too and definitely don’t do the “hard to get” game.

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

Hilarious! Jerry was stone cold, lol

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion

So now that you’ve seen the “ask me out” face a number of times, are you willing to take that chance?

posted 3 years ago in General Discussion