The utility pole scene...how it should have been written (SPOILER)
It's silly that an MD's family wouldn't carry Epipens in the car when they have a little girl with severe nut allergies. Here's how the scene should have been written:
-Charlie starts feeling sick at the party
-Peter begins to drive her to the hospital
-She starts getting real bad in the car and sticks her head out the window
-Peter frantically yells to charlie that he's going to find the Epipen and give it to her to inject herself and she needs to get back in the car
-He reaches across the dash while driving to rummage in the glove box for the Epipen
-He finds the Epipen but it falls to the floor
-He looks away to grab for the Epipen (remember he's stoned, freaking out and wants to get to the hospital so he doesn't stop)
-Car starts drifting slightly to the right as he reaches with his right hand for the Epipen.
-He finally grabs the Epipen
-He looks back at the road in time to correct his drift but then sees the dead animal
-He swerves to avoid the carcass and hits the utility pole!
That said, i think that movies that kill off little children like this for effect are cheap and take basically take shots below the belt. The is one of the most underwhelming movie I've seen in a long time.