How come you rarely see black women with white men?

Don't know about outside of the U.S., but in the U.S. the #1 interracial marriage is between a white man and an asian woman. I don't know where black man and white woman fall, but I do know that they are far greater than black woman and white man. I think black woman are the least group of people to marry outside their race. Actually, I'm not sure on that, but I do know that they rarely marry outside their race when compared to black men and white men. White women as well. I'm not sure about Asian men.

You can't persuade fanboys. You'd be better off trying to convince a wall. ~CodeNamePlasmaSnake~

White men aren't attracted to black women.

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Gentlemen! Have you no sense of decency?

Twenty years ago maybe, but go to any major city and it's a pretty common pairing (comparatively speaking).

I'm half white half asian but I look more asian than white with Caucasian bone structure though. I think that kinda separates me from other Asians because I'm a hapa and I can't really speak for Asian men who look "Asian". But all in all, I count myself really lucky that I have white features and I live in the US. I'm 6' tall and because of looking both white and Asian I have no trouble finding dates of all races, including white women. I'm now dating a beautiful Hispanic woman and dating has always been easy for me. It's like I never have to work to get my girls, I instantly get girls' attnetion, which is really lucky.

However, I've never dated a black woman before. I date women mainly on their attractiveness(not all but definitely plays a very important part). For me, black girls in general aren't very attractive. Of course there are attractive black girls, but there are very very far and few betwee, you only see the hot ones on TV(Kerry Washington, Tyra Banks), but in real life most black women I've seen are overweight, have really nasty hair, loud, rude, act really ghetto, that's not really attractive to me. For that reason, I've never dated or even attempted a conversation with a black woman. The closest I've come to a relationship was an international student from Beroundi who was my study buddy. She was beautiful and smart and I kinda fell for her. But then it didn't continue.

Personally, I'd rate attractiveness based on my experience: white women>light-skinned latina women>light-skinned Muslim women>mixed-race asian women>indian women>Asian women>general muslim women>general latina women>mixed black women with European feeatures>general black women

Men: white men>light-skinned Latino men>light-skinned Muslim men>mixed-race asian men>Indian men>General Muslim men>Latino men>black men>asian men

I too dont' find the majority of asian people attractive. I count myself lucky that I have European features to separate myself from them. Most Asian men are short, shy, nerds, with flat face and small eyes, to me they look like frogs. I'm speaking as a guy who is raised Asian(grew up with my mom) and speak fluent Chinese. I socialize with other Asian too but beause of looking not Asian I'm still considered an outcast by them. However, judging by my experience with girls most girls don't like asian men and some are even reluctant to date me at first when they hear I'm half-Asian but once they saw my picture and got to know me they like me a lot. But I can definitely feel the discrimination towards Asians everywhere, to men mostly but also to women too. Asians are very insecure in general too. You see Asian women getting in line to date men of other races to get rid of their Asian genes, which is really sad. To me, Asian women are not attractive either without their makeup. Their makeup takes twice as long as white girls and they basically put fake stuff on every part of their body, fake eyebrows, fake contacts, fake double eyelids, all the stuff that white girls and Latina girls have naturally. And notice that they always leave their long hair all the way down to cover their broad face to make it look small. I've dated a Korean girl in high school but she is so fake and had plastic surgery all over her body. I later learned that there's a plastic surgery epidemic in Korea. Even Koreans themselves don't like how they look.

That's not to say that white girls are perfect though. Juding by experience with white girls, most are really really BORING and talk about the same stuff everyday, like coffees, milk and all that. And a lot of the are so stereotypical that make movies like Legally Blonde and Mean Girls look so real. Like they don't care about important stuff, only superficial stuff. I mean they're good to look at for the first two days and then you get tired of them. They don't like to be controlled, listen to their men, they don't like to embrace their gender roles and realy enjoy their independence without sharing their life with you. It feels like they're so independent and its's hard to have a shared life together. I think the words to describe white women are empty, boring, shallow. But I do agree, they are the most attractive women of all, expect for their skin texture once they take off their mkeup they look soo old, and also they age so fast when they're 25 they look like they're 35-40.

Right now I'm dating a light-skinned Hispanic girl, it's better for me because I can easily fit in with Mexicans since I look mixed. For me she's perfect she's attractive, submissive and very lively, dances really well and treats me really well. The only tough thing about it is I have to learn to speak Spanish fluently other than that is perfect.

This is my dating experience as a hapa man, hope that helps.

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Like Kitten said, that depends on where you live. BF/WM couples are very common here in the Midwest---like my own long-divorced parents (the Detroit metro area specifically.) Nothing weird or rare about it here.

Media wants it that way

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