Caila Shouldn't Have Crossed That Boundary!

Before coming to Paradise, Caila had the strongest understanding that Ashley had extremely high feelings for Jared.

Ashley made sure that Caila understood this, and Caila affirmed to Ashley that it was well understood and would be respected.

Nevertheless, as soon as Caila arrived in Paradise, she made a straight line towards Jared and began her romantic moves on him.

Ashley saw this as a solid act of betrayal, and I agree that it was betrayal in the highest form.

I do not blame Ashley for slamming Caila up for betraying her. In my opinion, any love interest, ex-love interest, spouse, or ex-spouse of a friend is off-limits. It is amazing how people don't have any regards for the social boundaries of others, especially the social boundaries of those who are considered friends.

I've also noticed that women use the term "friend" in a lighter manner than men. Women, just because another woman shops with you, gossips with you, and eats chips and salsa with you at a local restaurant every week doesn't mean that she's your friend. This is why women often get back-stabbed and end up wondering what happened.

"But, I thought that she was my friend," they later complain in astonishment.

Men, on the other hand, seem to be different. They don't call every other guy that they socialize with a "friend". The title has to be earned, and it is often earned through honesty and loyalty. Betrayal and dishonesty are not taken lightly by men in general; they do not play games in that area like many women do.

Caila deserved to get her feelings hurt by Ashley. Caila asked for it. Caila betrayed Ashley.

Enough said.


Stop rattling the pots and pans, Ma! The boys are trying to sleep!