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Cayla & Jared....What happened???


I am devastated. DEVASTATED.
OK, not really. But I'm feeling disappointed, surprised, confused, hurt, and oh so vulnerable right now.

What do you think happened? Cayla said "Friends would call him and....he'd answer them." What the hell does that mean.

I do think Cayla ended things with Jared.

How did you interpret what was said by both of them?

I'm reeling!

Thoughts on the Cayla/Jared SPLIT?

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Ashley keeps interfering and Jared feeds into her delusions. He is definitely not a "nice" guy. Far from it. If he were truly nice, he would've cut ties with Ashley ages ago since she is clearly obsessed with him and he knows it. I think Jared probably has a pretty big ego and is possibly a narcissist, so he keeps Ashley around to boost his ego. He doesn't give a *beep* about her. He just cares that she always makes him feel good.

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Always felt that Jared was hit with Cayla, but never sensed the same from her. Yes she dated him on the show, but it never seemed to get deep from her end. The fact that she left the show, over being uncomfortable with Ashley also points to a lack of real feelings there, as if she did have any real deep feelings then you would expect her to stay and fight for the relationship, but when she left and took that chance that Jared wouldn't follow her, that said it all. They probably explored further in real life and realized that their lives don't mesh, in terms of values, friends, expectations.

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