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*SPOILERS* It was great!!! Until...


That ending. I was so hoping for a happy ending, and I was really enjoying the movie! It was so sweet, but I really wanted Will to live. Why don't disabled characters ever get to be happy??? I suppose it's true that a relationship can't cure depression, so I guess that's "realistic".

I feel like the film was building up to something good, but in the end it was a bit of a let down. Like, he finally found something to live for, and decided to throw it all away! maybe it's just me though, I feel like this could have been such a great story.

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Thought the exact same thing after I read the book...it was beautifully written and full of hope then yeah...

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Ah yes, tack on an unrealistic cheesy happy ending. Good grief, this is the kind of childish simplistic crap that makes Hollywood cater to idiots who need everything to be happy. Grow up. This film would have sucked if he'd just magically felt happy.

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Because life isnt always about happy endings unfortunately. The ending was perfect in my opinion.

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I, on the other hand, appreciated that they didn't take the predictable happy Hollywood ending.

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If you were in Will's position and you suddenly found yourself quadriplegic, unable to do anything for yourself, always having to rely on other people to do everything for you, including keep you alive...Always in tremendous pain, always in-and-out of the ER because your body can't regulate itself, always struggling with no hope for a cure...Knowing it's only going to get worse for you, health-wise and physically.........and knowing the impact your condition is having on your loved ones.....What would YOU choose to do?

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What did Stephen Hawking do? Maybe don't ask people that have never been in that position before. There's always something to live for.

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But I wasn't asking about Stephen Hawking. I was asking about WILL. They are two totally different people. Therefore, different situations. They are not the same person and their experiences are not the same.

The point of the exercise is simply to try to put yourself in Will's shoes, to try to see things from his perspective, and to try to understand why he chose the outcome he chose. You don't have to be in the same position to be able to empathize with his particular struggles and situation.

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Stephen hawking didn't just suddenly wake up with severe disability he has a condition that deteriorates slowly. Totally different.

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I understand he had his reasons, and I do appreciate sad/ambiguous endings. I just wonder about the sort of message this movie sends, and how it would affect actual disabled people who see it.

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I get what your saying, and it's unfortunate if people take from this movie a specific negative message. I just think that Will doesn't necessarily need to be made into a poster boy for people with physical disability. He's just one person living through his own unique experiences and making a choice based on that. No one else's experience is going to be exactly the same as his.

People all have different personalities, past experiences that shape them, strengths, weaknesses, families, support systems, financial resources, values, ways of coping, pain thresholds, struggles, ways of looking at the world, etc. No two experiences are the same. Therefore, they shouldn't all be lumped together with the assumption that what was best for Will would automatically be best for anyone else with a similar disability. Each situation and person and experience is different.

This story was simply WILL'S story. I don't think we should place the burden of being a poster boy for quads on his shoulders. Each person has their own, unique story. Each person feels and deals with their struggles differently.

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The ending made the movie for me. I prefer sad endings over happy endings...more realistic that way.

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Watch Rory O'Shea Was Here and The WaterDancers, those films have happy endings.

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