Did anyone else think that ?????SPOILERS
If she hadn't married Tony, there is no doubt in my mind that she would have just stayed in Ireland. She would have had everything she wanted there- got to stay with her mother, have a good job, be back home, and met a guy who liked her who was financially stable. Come to think of it, if her old boss never confronted her that she knew she was married already, I think she would have just left Tony stranded. I feel bad for both male characters. The first really liked her and wanted to make her happy, and the other had no idea that she was married so she led him on.