Another interesting and controversial fact of life (as opposed to either wishful thinking, philosophical wonderings, references to movies or even an authoritarian type of thinking here and there based on traditions and in the name of supporting status quo etc) is that a question like this in life, including if not especially in today's day and age, will never be answered SIMPLY and without controversy and on a nice and pleasant or even an understandable and relatable level of "Ah, this is that etc" and so that there is a THERE THERE and a SATISFYING NARRATIVE TYPE OF CONCLUSION.
And that also includes for stuff like double standards and whatnot or even "beautiful female villain" TROPES as opposed to merely, however sadly, COMMON examples that most of humanity at least overall already KNOWS ABOUT and its truism that no longer at all surprises anyone, even people with conditions and not with high IQ, and no offense of course to ANYONE.
And folks, like it or not or even UNDERSTAND it or not...
In this life, we really DO look at this issue or these types of issues often seriously and with, well, many nuances here and there and with people having different opinions or different knowledge so basically, that's that.