Why not judge matters including this one on their OWN?

Without the (what in my opinion has also become cliched) call for "reverse the genders"?

Even if you are the most SEXUALLY SENSITIVE person in the world or among them, and even if you ARE aware and sensitive to certain issues in GENERAL as well as what stances (and boy, DO we have STANCES in this world, I tell thee (that's "you" in Shakespearean language), do you not occasionally want some originality in life and a bit of curiosity on something on its OWN, including what is seen here, with the woman being engaged in a relationship with a 16 year old male teenager?

And even then, we have various arguments and gradations etc. And even when it comes to MOVIES... Whether or not the film is any good or not strictly subject matter wise, thanks.

Anyways, even if I also partially agree its just ME, but I often feel like judging some or other matters on their own, and the constant "what if it was a man instead" or "reverse the genders" type of mentioned argument has become for me a TIRED CLICHE even if I am not always against it, but let's indulge in some originality please among the typical ever going mundanity, thanks.