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Poll: Do you eat a girl out during a one night stand?


Just curious what everyone's thoughts are on this. Jon freely gave oral to the girl from the club as if its something he always normally does. Me personally I've never given oral to a girl during a one night stand. I guess I just find it too risky as I don't know her history and don't want mouth herpes or any other stds you can get on your mouth lol. So yeah was just wondering do you guys eat a girl out during a one night stand?

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I've never eaten a girl out during a one night stand. Funnily enough in the film Jon says that that in order to get head you gotta give head. I've been lucky enough to receive head without ever giving it in the minimal few one night stands that I've had haha. I'm not sure what the situation is for other guys. I guess for me personally eating a girl out is more of a intimate thing that I would do with my girlfriend where I know that it's safe and know her history in comparison to doing it with some random i met in a club.

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I have, yes. Looking back I probably should not have, but I can't go back and change things.

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Then I sure do hope you guys feel the same way about women giving you head...! The risk is the same considering STD, and it's just as intimate. It's a two way street, you know.

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That is probably not a great idea either. It is best to get to know someone before doing those things, but I have done them in the past. It is easy to look back when you are married and say you should not have done some things, at the time it is tough to say no.

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If you expect it from the girl you have to give it as well!

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During a ONS? NEVER!

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Odd that I'm commenting on this.

I have not contracted an STD as of yet. I have freely given oral sex to girls I've just gotten acquainted with whether over parties or hookups. For me, I don't know, I just do it. There's no explanation. I just have no problem doing it, and I have done it without receiving in the past, although in my experience most girls have given me mindblowing blowjobsv after the fact. This isn't an incentive to go down on someone (as I've said, I've done it without receiving), but they always appear really enthusiastic giving to you after they've received, which is really a turn on.

For me, I would do it regardless of whether or not the favor was returned. It just seems like something I would do. I find it odd that many guys don't want to do it in general.

Mitdnaairotciv

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I'm with DJ on his comments about it. Unless the stuff is just really, really pristine, it's just pretty gross. I gotta be really into things to be enjoying that.

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Yes, only one women refused it for some reason. But - in contrast of Jon's experiences - it never happened to me that they didn't want to give me head.

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Few do, but one might use a dental dam for protection from STDs when giving oral. It’s the same concept as using a condom — barrier — which, ironically, Jon complains about in the film.

Oh, and for the purposes of your poll, I have given oral to women on our first night of intimacy — though never a first date — when there could be no assurance we’d go out or have sex again. So, not technically ONSs. I can only think you make a better impression on a prospective partner by reciprocating oral sex.

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